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| Mon 16 Jan 12, 9:59 PM polly_pocket UK(CF), 3 yrs |
I was at the kitchen sink the other day, busy washing up and clearing things etc and I was in need of emptying my bladder. However, the neccessity of finishing the washing up was greater as I knew Sir would be home any minute and therefore I wanted the kitchen to be clean.
With the sound of the running water coming out of the tap, my desperation got even greater, to the extent, I was hopping from one foot to the other, gritting my teeth , clenching my buttocks and squeezing my bladder in. As I was hopping, it reminded me of the little jig I do when Sir goes to cane me.Anyway, i could wait no more. I dashed to the loo and it was an exquisite feeling. Actually the whole thing was erm quite nice actually, so I wondered...... Have you ever used this in play scenarios and to what effect??? ie making someone wait to spend a penny etc. I think its the control aspect that turns me on with the idea. sorry if this topic has been covered before, pollyx Edited Mon 16 Jan 12, 10:00 PM by polly_pocket | |
| 16 Jan 12, 10:05 PM Ironsmith UK(CW), 8 yrs |
I have never used it, but it is something I have considered and speculated about. Controlling such a basic, essential, "animal" aspect of someone's behaviour is a very powerful image and technique, in the same way that denying someone privacy when they use the toilet is potentially very "powerful" - something that simply doesn't happen (except to a very limited and socially acceptable extent in a Gent's loo with urinals) in vanilla life. | |
| 16 Jan 12, 10:19 PM Mistress_Anarchy 8 mths |
Its common. I use it as a form of torture but you have to be careful as its not good to hold in urine for to long. I like turning on the taps and watching the sub squirm. If I want to totally humiliate them I tell them to remain dressed and wet themselves. If you want to go the extra liquid you can make them do it in public. I like peeing outdoors. In fact the children next door heard a conversation between me and their mum last year and thought it was so funny that they did it all summer long. Sometimes with a lover I sit on them and pee without warning. It's so dirty but makes me laugh. One of the funniest things to see is telling someone to pee and however much they want to they cant. Sometimes I tell someone to lie in a bath with there feet high up on the wall so that they have to pee overthemselves. Then they tell me im taking the piss which is even more funny as I will say no it's you thats taking the piss darling. Mistress Anarchy
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| 16 Jan 12, 10:20 PM londonplaything UK(SW), 5 yrs |
certainly will be using just this sort of 'delayed release' scenario. I also know from my own experience that 'having to hold' is a wonderfull feeling... being right on the brink. I'm sure a lot can be done with that... and a lot to follow too. lp ................bitie bitie................... | |
| 16 Jan 12, 10:33 PM BladeRunnerB26354 14 mths |
This
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| 16 Jan 12, 10:49 PM valleyrose17 UK(BS), 2 yrs |
I was tied to a table recently. After a while the need to wee started to made itself be felt. I tried to keep it out of my mind but the more I tried not to think about it the more it hurt. Until it took over everything - the pain in my shoulder, the cold, everything. And the worry that I was going to wee on the bench and the floor terrified me. It became all-consuming. God when I eventually was allowed to wee it was just HEAVEN! "Fear is that little darkroom where negatives are developed" Michael Pritchard | |
| 16 Jan 12, 11:15 PM Elohims_jay UK(B), 7 yrs |
Been there ... Done that ... except in my case the Bastard snuck up behind me .. made me jump ... and I went wee wee all over his boots lol But I have to admit that feeling of emptying when the bladder is "painfully" full is almost orgasmic .... but not sure I can be commanded to keep control much past that moment .... although the bastard would probably get more pleasure from making me pee myself "You and you alone make me feel that I am alive. Other men it is said have seen angels, but I have seen thee and thou art enough." ~ George Moore | |
| 16 Jan 12, 11:38 PM OneKinkySlut UK(HA), 10 mths |
Yes, I have been told to hold it for as long as possible in the past by a Dom, and I sometimes hold it if I am not wanting to get up outa bed as I'm too engrossed in a book or watching a good movie and sat down in the living room. Then when I do finally go it is such a fantastic release. I would love to have to hold it whilst being fisted and then be allowed to pee, thats something I have wanted to try for a long time now but still havent had the opportunity to do it. I dont even know if it would be possible but I think it could be done if I wasnt desperate to start off with and then became so. | |
| 16 Jan 12, 11:44 PM fellatrix UK, 2 yrs |
He often plies me with water all afternoon. If i'm lucky he'll let me use the toilet. Last week I already needed the loo when I started his massage (all over sports massage which can easily take an hour). By the time my fingers had worked their magic I was desperate and he knew it. He decided he'd like his upper arms given another going over. Then his hands (he never asks for his hands to massaged!) Then would I mind just going over his quads again... It was like holding back the Niagara Falls. But bliss when I was finally allowed to go. smartarse | |
| 17 Jan 12, 12:34 AM wonderer UK, 5 yrs |
Oh I know someone whose favourite thing is this. I won't name names; let's see if she'll post here, expose herself, come out or whatever "Wisdom begins in wonder” (Socrates) | |
| 17 Jan 12, 1:41 AM Monkey_Wench UK(B), 20 mths |
Let it all go you mean? |