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| 16 Jan 12, 2:51 PM domina_georgina UK(CV), 4 mths  |
I find most men enjoy watching and have such a high response to visual stimulus that I tend to use blindfolds mainly as a punishment. Taking away sight also requires a lot of trust, so they are best uzed when scening with someone who knows and trusts you. | |
| 16 Jan 12, 3:00 PM tanken UK(NR), 2 yrs  |
Definitely agree. I have never been blindfolded and would hate it. It's not that I mind the dark (although I was scared as a kid but since have worked long periods in darkrooms). Part of the pleasure to me is seeing the domme, the look in her eyes and the anticipation of what she is going to do. Just not a blindfoldable person I guess
Happiness is a warm bum | |
| 16 Jan 12, 4:10 PM GeekyDFS UK(NG), 9 mths |
Blindfolds all the way, it totaly throws you off who is where, its awesome | |
| 16 Jan 12, 4:24 PM DT1974 UK(TN), 8 yrs |
the guys I play with seem to be roughly 50/50 on whether they like to see what's going on.
Generally I like to see their eyes which is why I rarely use hoods or blindfolds. I like to see what's going on in their mind, whether they're excited, nervous, etc. However, if I'm doing sensation play it can sometimes be fun having them blindfolded. =================================================== =========== | |
| 16 Jan 12, 4:46 PM pink_arse UK(SE), 15 mths |
i think i will mis it up a bit start up with a sexy visual tease showing him what he cant have whilst i restrain him! then blind fold him whilst commening sensory play before allowing him to see again whilst i tease him some more so he gets the stuff where he needs to see he can and stuff where he cant he doesnt! i jsut need to make sure it flows! i feel comfrtoable but im so much more sub but i think i will enjoy it just my first time topping someone properly :S lol Thanks guys any tips will be great as i say im normally on receiving end! :P | |
| 21 Feb 12, 1:20 PM silkfetish UK, 5 yrs |
I love to be blindfolded from start to finish of the play. This include having a hood locked over the blindfold so I can't remove it if my hands are free for a (short) while. The longest I have been kept blindfolded is 20 hours, and I was a bit reluctant for it to end. I love not to be able to know where I am, how dependent I become to the mistress, how helpless I am | |
| 21 Feb 12, 2:34 PM KinkyRoly UK(OX), 3 yrs |
Our views don't really matter. The only thing that matters is what works between you and him. Some people really love to be blindfolded, while others regard it as quite an extreme thing. There's only one way to find out, so I suggest that you try it and see what happens. My instinct is that it will work really well and you'll be doing it again, but you've got absolutely nothing to lose by trying. | |
| 22 Feb 12, 7:27 AM manniquin UK(BS), 5 yrs |
I find I tend to close my eyes anyway, so for me a blindfold is the icing on the cake! And a hood even better. | |
| 22 Feb 12, 9:45 AM rubberroy UK(TN), 6 yrs |
I love to be blindfolded. Better still a hood with additional outside blindfold to give a bit of pressure on the eyes is even better. I haven't tried being blindfolded for a great length of time, but it's something I really want to try with the right person. Supplier of classic motor omnibuses for weddings and all sorts of events in the south of England. | |
| 22 Feb 12, 3:06 PM xAdamx  UK(SE), 9 yrs |
No disrespect OP, but Men? a generalisation? I suspect you mean people and blindfolds. As a man I could think of nothing worse than being blindfolded, or restrained, loss of controll etc. Perhaps because I am dom  |
