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| Thu 12 Jan 12, 8:15 PM Juantastic UK(CH), 22 mths |
I'm trying to get used to wearing a plug routinely, however I'm struggling with all of the plugs that I have. While each has (or at some time had) its merits, they all fall short when it comes to the long term wear possibilities. I have a number that are useless and several that are frustratingly perfect but for one critical flaw. The closest to the spot so far is this http://creative-mouldings.co.uk/index.php?main_p... the trouble being that I've managed to break it, as I don't think it was designed for the wearer to sit down while using it. But in every other respect, it's perfect. The size (5cm diameter) is spot on, the texture is soft enough (and could maybe be firmer in pursuit of robustness, I just struggle with a glass plug) the egg shape stops it from popping out (many plugs are too tapered) and the base prevents it from completely slipping inside, while at the same time not being a massive disc that won't sit neatly between the cheeks, increasing the chances of it popping out and possibly resulting in VBPL (visible butt-plug line.) So does anyone know where I might obtain such a beast, preferably without spending much more than £25? | |
| 12 Jan 12, 8:26 PM Ms_Valentine UK, 9 yrs |
Sorry..... but in our experience the best long term wear butt plugs are stainless steel, and best design of all those, is the n-Joy brand. They are expensive but worth it if you are serious about daily use for several hours. paul wears his at work all day every weekday, generally the medium or large. They sit well between the bottom cheeks, are very comfortable, easy to clean and will not get damaged by lubes or daily/regular use. Dominant partner in an FLR with @paulss Edited 12 Jan 12, 8:27 PM by Ms_Valentine | |
| 12 Jan 12, 8:37 PM OneKinkySlut UK(HA), 10 mths |
Those are quite dear but I guess if you can wear it for hours on end then you get what you pay for. I have a stainless steel plug but its not n joy and it doesnt stay in at all. I've not had any luck with any that do actually. They either disappear inside or just literally fly out or work themselves out and I am pretty tight anally so basically theyre rubbish. I have a jewelled one, the jewel unstuck itself and I had to re glue it back again, not good at all. Not sure what the answer is really? Maybe invest in an n joy if youre really serious about it. I think also the gay sites would probably stock some decent plugs but I wouldnt know which would do the best job. Hope you find one though. | |
| 12 Jan 12, 9:11 PM Juantastic UK(CH), 22 mths |
Thank you both. The njoy range has piqued my interest, but I can think of much better things to do with £99, so maybe I'm not that committed. The 'large' one does look like it might tick all of the boxes apart from the hardness one, and it looks a lot more forgiving than the glass cone plug that I had in mind when I mentioned the hardness problem. But £99 for a piece of metal? I din't pay that for my good lady's Hitachi.
Perhaps I'll have to dig the Maplin Polymorph out of the shed and mould my own | |
| 12 Jan 12, 9:16 PM DrTaps AQ, 10 yrs |
I tend to agree about the stainless steel ones, though for me the rosebud design is better for long term use as opposed to the n-joy. Being steel hasn't been a problem for me to date. In silicone, I have found the Tantus ryder OK for long term wear with a decently narrow neck though the body is perhaps not wide enough for your taste. Special offer on rosebuds it seems, so might also be in your preferred price range, see http://www.top-to-bottom-leathers.co.uk/Bondage-... Edited 12 Jan 12, 9:17 PM by DrTaps | |
| 12 Jan 12, 9:35 PM FluffySub UK(NN), 6 yrs |
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13310 Comfy and discrete Not huffy or stuffy, nor tiny or tall,
But fluffy, just fluffy, with no brains at all. | |
| 12 Jan 12, 9:35 PM Belasarius UK(M), 8 yrs |
I have the n-joy steel one for my girl. Very satisfactory indeed. My goal - to save women from nature (Dior) | |
| 12 Jan 12, 9:43 PM PeterPan1972 UK, 8 yrs |
N-joy for £69 at lovehoney The fact that we live at the bottom of a deep gravity well, on the surface of a gas covered planet going, at 66,000 miles an hour, around a nuclear fireball 90 million miles away and think this to be normal is obviously some indication of how skewed our perspective tends to be. | |
| 12 Jan 12, 9:46 PM syrthe69 FR, 4 yrs |
i have in my raes a medium steel plug i enjoy it
julia julia h bi 63ans retraité travesti amateur soumis bottom recherche rencontres bdsm amicales et conviviales autour de lyon ou des stages. | |
| 12 Jan 12, 10:23 PM Ms_Valentine UK, 9 yrs |
I guess I can only try to persuade you to save up to get the best you can, as in the end if you keep on buying cheaper , less robust and usable models, you will end up paying a sizeable amount on rubbish which doesn't last. Per use, year after year, I can almost guarantee nothing will be cheaper. Dominant partner in an FLR with @paulss | |
| 12 Jan 12, 10:50 PM DeCoverley UK(GL), 4 yrs |
Ouch! (Thanks the Gods I'm not a sub...)
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