Are you a begger? (35)

In a scene or while playing, do you beg for your Dom/Master/Top to stop?

Do you mean it?

Do you say it as a part of a scene to enhance the scene in some way or do you genuinely mean it as a safeword?

Would you expect your D/M/T to stop if you said "stop", or "please don't", or other varied versions or would you expect them to stop only with your safeword or Traffic lights?

(Note: There is no right or wrong answer, this is just a sampling as a result of conversation on another thread)

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Edited 10 Jan 12, 7:13 PM by TheBanker

Never asked Him to stop as far as i can remember. As above.

Don't have a safeword so couldn't/wouldn't use one.

I would expect Him to just do whatever He wanted regardless.

Have sworn at Him, bitten and kicked Him..but He deserved it. Likewise what i got in return was deserved.

jules.x

The beatings will continue until morale improves.

I'm a bit of a beggar at times. I rarely get quite as far as saying stop. More likely "please... please... don't.." But if I've ever mouthed "stop" or he's ever shown signs of stopping because of it I've immediately begged him not to stop.

Well, yes and no. I'm not a masochist and I genuinely want the pain to stop. But i genuinely don't want to interrupt his enjoyment either, and that tends to be the overriding factor. So no, I don't really want him to stop what he's doing, although I would really like the pain to stop.

No, and I'd be disappointed if he stopped. We no longer use a safeword* (at my instigation), but he knows from my reaction (and begging) how I'm feeling. It's his decision how far he pushes me. If there's something wrong/unexpected (like cramp, going numb etc) I tell him and he acts responsibly and appropriately.

*Although last week he was planning something particularly brutal and insisted I had a safeword on that occasion. And he insists I can say stop during fisting 'cos he has stupidly big hands.

smartarse

Edited 10 Jan 12, 8:14 PM by fellatrix

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