| 10 Jan 12, 11:33 AM FairyGirl UK(YO), 3 yrs    |
I totally get this, I found it completely fascinating and couldn't stop watching it. It's so far removed from what I could imagine as being part of my life in any way, shape or form that I really was drawn into the documentary. There's always one, and if I'm in the vicinity, it's probably me. | |
| 10 Jan 12, 11:39 AM canupleaseme UK(S), 3 yrs |
The control aspect was fascinating. I was also blown away with how the human body can work like that. It made me sad for the woman who was unhappy and got trapped in her house. And I don't think you should have kids if your gonna chose to do that to yourself or at least wait till they have grown up and left home.
So interesting though I made all my friends watch it Kink friendly Beauty therapist all enquiries welcome | |
| 10 Jan 12, 8:28 PM MissKimberley NL, 8 yrs     |
Would that apply to other kinks too? Ie bdsm? I always wonder about this... you see I don't have children and I don't actually think BDSM and having children mixes very well. So would you say that to someone into BDSM too? Just as an OT.
“During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act” - George Orwell | |
| 10 Jan 12, 8:34 PM MissKimberley NL, 8 yrs |
I think you misread a little. I don't do feeding. I'm not into feeding and my partner isn't a feeder. I'm not an advocate of feeding and it's not my kink. I do like plump women and I love my curves. That's not the same as saying I like feeding. Most of the time, feeding seems to be very onesided and the feedee seems to go along with it because they have little choice. It's not based on informed consent but a fairly one-sided lust and insecurity. However - I'm happy to be proven wrong on that subject. I'd love to meet people who are into this for real and both partners enjoy the control aspect. It's no different than someone controlling exercise and weight in another way, or body modifications, or whatever. Yes the feedee could die as a result of obesity related problems. If the feedee is ok with that, should we stop them? If I see someone doing risky kinky shit that could kill them, I don't stop them either. People get so hung up about the fatness thing. Really, people die of lots of things, including car accidents and smoking. I don't see anyone banning cars or cigarettes. YKIOK and all that. Fat is a very emotional subject for most - rather than just a body size.
“During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act” - George Orwell | |
| 10 Jan 12, 11:14 PM canupleaseme UK(S), 3 yrs |
For me that applies to doing anything that would leave you unfit to take care of your children and to be active with them. As a Mistress of many kinks and the mother of a 13 yr old I cant say yeah it applies to all kinks cos it really doesn't. The more hardcore ones we are saving till we get time alone when she has left home. I think that allowing yourself to become so big you are bedridden (as one lady in the program has with a young child if I remember rightly) is really irresponsible. There are too many young carers in the world who miss out on their childhoods because their parents are bed-bound for genuine health reasons to purposefully do it is wrong in my book. Don't let having kink put you off having kids, it certainly makes it difficult at times but doesn't stop us from being able to live out our kinks in the right time and place. Kink friendly Beauty therapist all enquiries welcome | |
| 13 Jan 12, 5:27 PM MissKimberley NL, 8 yrs |
No kids for me thanks  kink is one factor but I'm far too selfish to want to be a parent.
In the words of Braveheart... FREEEDOOOMMM! “During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act” - George Orwell |
