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chartreuse wrote:

If a male has a good technique with tongue and fingers then he can send me into orbit... strangely, there has to be more than the mere physical stimulation to achieve it, though.

That's what I do, use the fingers and tongue technique.

8 Jan 12, 9:17 PM
chartreuse
UK(BA), 6 yrs

There's a lot of "love it" not a lot of "loathe it" and also very little about the "why" in both instances.

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8 Jan 12, 9:25 PM
chartreuse
UK(BA), 6 yrs

Hylas_1 wrote:

chartreuse wrote:

If a male has a good technique with tongue and fingers then he can send me into orbit... strangely, there has to be more than the mere physical stimulation to achieve it, though.

That's what I do, use the fingers and tongue technique.

A lot of men do... it's that other ingredient that makes all the difference very often, though - that added extra known as "a connection".

8 Jan 12, 9:32 PM
fellatrix
UK, 2 yrs

chartreuse wrote:
There's a lot of "love it" not a lot of "loathe it" and also very little about the "why" in both instances.

Well I love it because... I get really good orgasms from it.

Unfortunately I like it done just so, but the Boss doesn't usually respond too well to being given precise instructions! And sometimes he likes to just make me squirm and not let me orgasm.

smartarse

8 Jan 12, 9:34 PM
chartreuse
UK(BA), 6 yrs

mia wrote:

chartreuse wrote:
I found myself wondering why some women love it and other women hate it?

(Men can reply, too. )

There could be all sorts of reasons for both...

Maybe some women dislike their own genitals - perhaps they think they are not "normal" down there and don't want anyone to see what they consider to be an abnormality.

Yup. That's me.

Maybe they have had bad experiences of it (though I can't think of any that I have had or what those experiences might have been).

This too.

However, i am bisexual and this only applies to receiving it off men. Off women i feel self concious at first, but can get into it if they get a bit grabby or bitey or there are any hints at all of dominance or sadism from them.

I can't explain it!

I'm sorry to read that you feel that way about your genitals, especially when with men - I wonder why, do you know why?

Are you able to expand a little on the bad experiences that have led you to your dislike of cunnilingus with men?

If you can't I will understand and respect that.

8 Jan 12, 9:37 PM
DeCoverley
UK(GL), 4 yrs

Actually, I'd completely forgotten � my girlfriend of 30 years ago was horrified when I wanted to do it to her. She specifically used the term �filthy� to refer to her cunt.

Yet she was totally depraved in every other way � filthy in fact!

8 Jan 12, 9:38 PM
sub55y
UK(HA), 15 mths

Massage and touch seeing a partner pleasured is also very satisfying and achieving that connection is very special.

8 Jan 12, 9:39 PM
ConsciousnessJunkie
UK(N), 5 yrs

chartreuse wrote:
very little about the "why" in both instances.

It's the intimacy.

Licking inside a womans body or around her vulva is so intimate, it's not something you're as likely to do with a casual partner. It's very much akin to the intimacy of rimming.

Although there may be similarities, it's strikingly different to performing oral sex on a man, since that is almost much more expected during casual encounters, and is generally shown as such in porn.

So the intimacy combined with the (sometimes) very good feelings of having that part of the body touched is the reason why it's such a good thing. But then I'm a big advocate of doing anything that's fun and feels good.

8 Jan 12, 9:41 PM
chartreuse
UK(BA), 6 yrs

fellatrix wrote:

chartreuse wrote:
There's a lot of "love it" not a lot of "loathe it" and also very little about the "why" in both instances.

Well I love it because... I get really good orgasms from it.

Unfortunately I like it done just so, but the Boss doesn't usually respond too well to being given precise instructions! And sometimes he likes to just make me squirm and not let me orgasm.

Thank you.

That's one very good reason why I love being a dominant, I get to tell the man what I want done, how, when and where.

8 Jan 12, 9:43 PM
geoff917
UK(CO), 3 yrs

I have to say that on those rare occasions I have been in a situation to satisfy a lady orally, i have loved every minute of it........likewise some have been been happy enough to have said they have liked the experience! I dont wish to claim i'm sooo good, i can readily understand that some women may not like it, or be turned on by it....but perhaps then I have been v lucky????

Oh yes btw I find it a v v v v sub thing to do.....

"In order to finish first, you must first finish".....Roger Penske

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