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Ball gag users - why do you like it? (30)

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8 Jan 12, 7:57 PM
DeCoverley
UK(GL), 4 yrs

Sobri_Quet wrote:
I tried a ball gag but the taste made me retch.

Rubber ball. Try a plastic or silicon one.

Sobri_Quet wrote:
The drool as I removed it was not at all a sexy sight.

All together now… “OH YES IT WAS!”

8 Jan 12, 8:13 PM
Sobri_Quet
UK(N), 6 mths

Hahahaha when I know I look sexy I feel sexy. I don't think I could feel sexy drooling. I guess I'd really have to know that the man found it erotic and I'm still not sure that would work for me.

DeCoverley wrote:

Sobri_Quet wrote:
I tried a ball gag but the taste made me retch.

Rubber ball. Try a plastic or silicon one.

Sobri_Quet wrote:
The drool as I removed it was not at all a sexy sight.

All together now… “OH YES IT WAS!”

8 Jan 12, 8:14 PM
Sorceror
UK(HU), 9 yrs

I find that ball gags cause serious jaw ache in a matter of minutes, not hours. Okay if you're into that sort of pain I guess...

As for using panties one way is to slide the knickers by the leg holes onto the central knot of a knotted cleave gag before inserting it. Alternatively they can be wrapped around a bit gag. Either way stops them from being swallowed.

S.x.

8 Jan 12, 8:19 PM
DeCoverley
UK(GL), 4 yrs

Sorceror wrote:
I find that ball gags cause serious jaw ache in a matter of minutes, not hours. Okay if you're into that sort of pain I guess...

It's very important to use the right size of ball for the mouth in question

8 Jan 12, 8:45 PM
HeelHussy
UK(B), 4 yrs

I do like to put ball gags on subs -and even on me when I am being sub- for a few reasons. There is the drooling humiliation and having to accept the messiness of the situation. I like the look sometimes and the symbolism of power exchange. Even if the sub can still communicate verbally they will at least think twice before speaking! I think the pain of having the gag in is a little lesson sometimes too. Also it's a fun barrier to watch a gagged sub try to kiss, lick, suck, eat, drink etc in a gag. The frustration and humiliation. hmmm

9 Jan 12, 4:37 PM
Sultry_Sub
UK, 5 mths

misunderstoodslave wrote:
The drooling is horrible and humiliating and makes me cry, the jaw ache after is ghastly, the helplessness complete, with only the ability to plead with the eyes left.

The cruelty of being allowed to try to kiss him through the gag and never quite succeeding, the build-up of saliva behind it and feeling you might choke, the biting of the too tightly tied strap into the corners of your mouth. The uncomfortable feeling of fullness in the mouth, the impossibility of replying when questions are asked. Biting down on the ball when being hurt.

All in all, completely brilliant, then.

Couldn't have put it better x

9 Jan 12, 6:17 PM
Fizzs_puppy
UK, 6 yrs

Sorceror wrote:
I find that ball gags cause serious jaw ache in a matter of minutes, not hours. Okay if you're into that sort of pain I guess...

S.x.

I find that if you remember to relax your jaw and not fight the gag too much then you can last a lot longer than you normally can. I'm not sure about the 'hours' though.

I love the feeling of helplessness when held in a mouth filling ball gag, being kissed on the lips and looking into my partner's eyes.... knowing you don't need any other communication other than that.

And although the drool is frustrating in one way, I find it is an essential reason why I love the ball gag so much. I know that if I remember to stay focussed, to swallow regularly in between breaths then I can stay on top of it, but if I break concentration for just a few seconds then there's no going back and I only have myself to blame.

The only downside is the marks you get on the side of your mouth after being gagged for any length of time. Often they don't quite go away for a day or two, which is not always a good thing

9 Jan 12, 7:25 PM
Nociception
UK, 2 yrs

DeCoverley wrote:
While everything you say is true, for me there's also something which seems to defy analysis, like bondage itself. I mean, I can tell you at length how much I enjoy tying a girl up – and gagging her – but the first time I saw one tied up, on an old black and white telly when I was too young to know what sex was, I felt a powerful thrill which I didn't understand.

It seems a bit odd that the OP's girlfriend would complain about something preventing screaming, and therefore an accessory to rape, while presumably not complaining about being tied up… if her logic is consistent, I wonder what she thinks the purpose of that might be?

To take the latter point first, it's a bit more complicated than that. My wife (we're married ) had never considered BDSM at all before she met me and I don't think she had a terribly positive view of it. Thankfully I was luckier than many posters I've seen on here. When I 'came out' she rethought her views in the light of what she knew about me, rather than re-assessing me according to her existing prejudices. She's been very supportive and open about the whole thing. However, we sometimes encounter aspects of BDSM that she has never heard of before or assumed that I wouldn't like, which require a careful think for her when we hit them (as we did during the film mentioned).

I also agree that explanation may be insufficient to express everything. Like you and lots of others, I have plenty of childhood memories of being excited by these things. Any explanation of WHY will always be a guess after the fact, because we didn't make a premeditated choice to like it.

9 Jan 12, 7:48 PM
corvus_solitarius
UK(W), 2 yrs

Justbob wrote:

Muzzlehatch wrote:

Then of course there's the humiliation of drooling to be added to the list of good things!

the drool is a big part of it, especially when you know they really dont like it!

Drooling can also look sexy, so I've been told

Never a lip is curved with pain That can't be kissed into smiles again.
BRET HARTE, "The Lost Galleon"

9 Jan 12, 8:27 PM
DeCoverley
UK(GL), 4 yrs

corvus_solitarius wrote:
Drooling can also look sexy, so I've been told

Very. Very very very very very