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| Thu 5 Jan 12, 7:42 PM tanken UK(NR), 2 yrs   |
When 'I am sexually aroused by......' doesn't mean 'I want to.....'
This is quite a paradox when some of us have sexual fantasies that are very hot but we have no intention of acting out Happiness is a warm bum | |
| 5 Jan 12, 8:02 PM Ms_Valentine UK, 9 yrs |
Absolutely, I often think about things which are a turn on in my head but would be crap for me to do such as being a sub. Most of my fantasies or horny thoughts are about thing I will not be doing. I don't think too much about stuff I do regularly, I just enjoy doing it. Dominant partner in an FLR with @paulss | |
| 5 Jan 12, 9:39 PM MsBorgia_and_Mrk UK, 7 mths |
I have recently found that acting out some fantasies is just as good as the fantasies themselves. They do not always turn me on though... Also sometimes I am turned on but don't want to get off.. So it's a spectrum...
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| 5 Jan 12, 11:55 PM naruto12 UK(EH), 2 yrs |
I am sexually aroused by....sitting on the washing machine or at the back of a double decker bus.....or was that not quite what you meant......
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| 5 Jan 12, 11:57 PM Emmaline  UK(B), 7 yrs £    |
oh god yeah - i get very horny at the thought of him gagged and bound in the corner watching another man fuck me, but really don't want to do it. Can't think of another man i'd want to actually screw for one! [pi] (ETA: the opposite is true also in that particular instance!) ...It seemed like a good idea at the time... Edited 6 Jan 12, 12:00 AM by Emmaline | |
| 6 Jan 12, 6:43 AM Avada_Kedavra UK, 7 yrs |
What is a fantasy? M: Its only a baby needle, you wont know the difference. I am not a one dimensional needle obsessed Domme... | |
| 6 Jan 12, 11:15 AM tanken UK(NR), 2 yrs |
A daydream that gives you an erection and produces sex hormones in your body is one definition
Happiness is a warm bum | |
| 6 Jan 12, 1:45 PM Azrayel UK(MK), 4 yrs |
There are plenty of things that give me the horn and provide excellent wank fodder but that I feel safe in saying I will never act out. Some of them are seriously illegal, some are in a moral grey area and some are just downright insane.
Don't you just love goodbyes? | |
| 6 Jan 12, 1:59 PM kitteninthenight UK(MK), 9 mths |
Alot of my fantasies are illegal. I will never do them in real life, but it doesn't stop them arousing me or me thinking about them. Fantasy and reality are not always suppose to come together and if they did who knows what this world would be like? | |
| 6 Jan 12, 2:11 PM Creative_Me UK(IP), 3 yrs |
In the past I have found that writing my fantasies as works of fiction is a good way to share the thoughts that excite me. Sometimes I write about desires that others have shared with me. An even better way of enjoying such ideas is to share them personally with someone who is also excited by them - when you find a person who shares your intimate bad thoughts it is very, very special. It may even lead to some of them becoming reality and giving extreme pleasure. Being a Daddy is one of the intimate pleasures that can only really be appreciated by the Daddy and girl involved. It's magic when your girl snuggles close and says "I adore you, My Daddy". | |
| 6 Jan 12, 4:32 PM logica UK(S), 11 yrs |
Yes, absolutely. An important distinction. Thanks for drawing our attention to it Tanken. Many of mine are too gross to enact. For example, fantasising about scat is arousing for me, but I feel very clear about not wanting to get into that area, and in fact having looked at some scat porn, it really didn't do it for me AT ALL. So in my head is best for that one. (Was that too much info...? soz) |
