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| Tue 3 Jan 12, 2:55 PM Alphamale999 UK(KT), 3 yrs   |
I seem to be struggling to find a good fetish/BDSM club to the South of London. It seems to me that in most of them fetish clothing is optional. The last event I attended with my sub was the Fclub a couple of months ago, and the evening was mixed up with the normal swingers club attendees, which makes it rather less intimate and rather disappointing. I notice that both the Hellfire Club and Heathrow Dungeon don't insist on fetish clothing. I suspect that the likes of TG etc. appeal to a younger audience. Any ideas? | ||
| 3 Jan 12, 3:01 PM leopard99 UK(N), 2 yrs  |
Playspace in Camberley. Certainly a good club. They don't insist on fet clothing but they strongly encourage it. http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/p/Play_Space/ They definitely vet people who want to come. That's nothing to do with "beautiful people", everything to do with keeping out wanky men and other such nuisances.
Edited 3 Jan 12, 3:04 PM by leopard99 | ||
| 3 Jan 12, 3:10 PM franci UK(TW), 24 mths |
Yes I agree the best BDSM event running at the moment I think. "Lady of the House Speaking." | ||
| 3 Jan 12, 3:39 PM Alphamale999 UK(KT), 3 yrs |
Thank you both for your recommendation. I don't know how Playspace passed me by! Good to hear wanky men are discouraged and that attendees are vetted! Do they only do one party a month? | ||
| 3 Jan 12, 4:21 PM Absolute UK, 8 yrs £ |
huge dungeon with background music, strict dresscode, NO wanky men allowed
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| 3 Jan 12, 5:05 PM Alphamale999 UK(KT), 3 yrs |
Thank you, good to hear. What's the ambience like? Loud music or more atmospheric? Also, what's the normal age range? So many questions..... | ||
| 3 Jan 12, 5:07 PM SubJohn UK(TW), 12 yrs |
oye ... i resemble that remark
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| 3 Jan 12, 5:12 PM Ama_Sidero UK(GU), 7 yrs       |
Wanky men aren't allowed. The posters were being polite when they said discouraged. Well, I suppose it *is* discouraged, as we haven't actuall had one yet. LOL We only do one party a month at the moment - the first Friday of the month. We do sometimes have Peer Workshops and Bring and Buy sales - they would be on Sunday, probably, this year. The music is just ambient background music - not very loud and no dancing, etc. With PlaySpace kit and Dungeon E$ rented kit, there is usually over 20 pieces of play equipment and a dedicated screened medical area for needles and intimate play. The profile is @Play_Space if you would like more information.
If you drop me a memo with your email address, I will send you a vetting form. ETA: And thank you all for the compliments. We are glad you like it. xxx @Play_Space - Next party is Friday, January 6, 2012 and the first Friday of every month! Edited 3 Jan 12, 5:13 PM by Ama_Sidero | ||
| 3 Jan 12, 5:20 PM dougie159  UK(KA), 7 yrs  |
And so would i......if some bloody Domme did not have me 'locked'........jeeez, where's the key....tis not fair 178 Don't knock down fences until you know why they were put up. | ||
| 3 Jan 12, 9:00 PM Alphamale999 UK(KT), 3 yrs |
It would seem that the Fem Sub Club and Playspace seem to fit the bill perfectly! | ||
| 3 Jan 12, 10:40 PM rubberroy UK(TN), 6 yrs |
I can recommend Ann's Daytime Parties (formerly Ann & Roly's); not quite in south London, but Romford. You'll find a warm welcome, no music, good food, good people, and no dress code. Supplier of classic motor omnibuses for weddings and all sorts of events in the south of England. |
