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Pronouncing Domme as Dom-may is just evil! (44)

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31 Dec 11, 12:36 PM
Prunesquallor
UK(RG), 7 yrs
Platinum wrote:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dominatrix

The term "domme" is a coined pseudo-French female variation of the slang dom (short for dominant). It stems from the Latin words "dominus" = master, "domina" = mistress. The pronunciation is identical to the term "dom", by analogy to one-syllable French-derived words like femme or blonde.

Pronunciation here

http://www.forvo.com/word/domme/

... the difference being, we don't say 'femmay' or 'blonday'. With that pronunciation, it should have an acute accent over the 'e', and a second 'e'. As in 'dommée'. The problem is, that would mean 'one who was dommed', which is not really what is being conveyed!

The problem is, when it is pronounced correctly, the same way as the male form, you can't distinguish it in speech. Which is why I tend to use the word 'domina', when that distinction needs to be made..

'To loose' means 'to let go'. 'Lose' means you can't find it. 'Discrete' means separate. 'Crescendo' means 'growing'. 'Fulsome' doesn't mean 'full'. 'Unique' doesn't mean 'very unusual'.

Edited 31 Dec 11, 12:39 PM by Prunesquallor

31 Dec 11, 1:18 PM
Lady_Anna_Bradford
UK(BD), 5 yrs

Prunesquallor wrote:
The problem is, when it is pronounced correctly, the same way as the male form, you can't distinguish it in speech. Which is why I tend to use the word 'domina', when that distinction needs to be made..

I say 'dom' for 'dommes' and 'male dom' for 'doms'.

"If no sexual offence is being committed it seems very odd indeed that there should be an offence for having an image of something which was not an offence," Lord Wallace of Tankerness

31 Dec 11, 1:25 PM
Ms_Valentine
UK, 9 yrs
Lady_Anna_Bradford wrote:
Prunesquallor wrote:
The problem is, when it is pronounced correctly, the same way as the male form, you can't distinguish it in speech. Which is why I tend to use the word 'domina', when that distinction needs to be made..

I say 'dom' for 'dommes' and 'male dom' for 'doms'.

Likes your thinking :-)

Dominant partner in an FLR with @paulss

31 Dec 11, 3:07 PM
Kitty_Fantastico
UK(OX), 2 yrs

Thank goodness I've never heard anyone say dom-may - how totally horrible. I also hate fem dom or femidom.

I also always say dom or male dom when speaking - but will write domme as it seems to get the meaning across in the easiest way possible.

31 Dec 11, 3:49 PM
Ms_Valentine
UK, 9 yrs
Kitty_Fantastico wrote:
Thank goodness I've never heard anyone say dom-may - how totally horrible. I also hate fem dom or femidom.

I also always say dom or male dom when speaking - but will write domme as it seems to get the meaning across in the easiest way possible.

Sorry, I know I should answer your point BUT

I love your cute Christmas kitty...Ahhhhh!

Anyway, calmed down now.

You are lucky not to have heard 'Dom-may' mauled out of a snarky twit's mouth, when they think they are being clever or up themselves. It is vommy stuff.

Dominant partner in an FLR with @paulss

31 Dec 11, 4:00 PM
Dollface
UK, 6 yrs

Domm-ay? Makes me think of cheap trainers, frankly. I don't care if God himself pronounces it like that; it brings velcro fastenings to mind.

"The less said about life's sores, the better."
- Oscar Wilde.

Edited 31 Dec 11, 4:02 PM by Dollface

31 Dec 11, 4:44 PM
Ms_Valentine
UK, 9 yrs
Dollface wrote:
Domm-ay? Makes me think of cheap trainers, frankly. I don't care if God himself pronounces it like that; it brings velcro fastenings to mind.

Oh Gracious, now another bad connotation for Dom-may.

Trainers, I ask, you, how much worse can it get.

Dominant partner in an FLR with @paulss

31 Dec 11, 5:10 PM
mmutie
UK, 7 yrs
Yes, it's a bit Hyacinth Bucket dontcha think?
31 Dec 11, 5:13 PM
GazUK1963
UK(B), 6 yrs
misunderstoodslave wrote:
Dear God, do people really do this? There is literally no end to the ways of being unbearably annoying.

How could you look at that word and get dommay? Cannot compute.

It does not compute to me how you could possibly not! That is what it looks like and reads like in English, which is the only language I know.

IMHO though, it is irrelevant anyway. A bit like the spelling/grammar Nazis, if you can read and understand what is written what does it matter. Dom or Dom-May, same drink, different bottle.

Gary xxx.

Everyone who lives dies, but not everyone who dies has truly lived.
When you're tired of The Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar you're tired of life!

31 Dec 11, 5:38 PM
Belasarius
UK(M), 8 yrs



Ms_Valentine wrote:
Lady_Anna_Bradford wrote:
Prunesquallor wrote:
The problem is, when it is pronounced correctly, the same way as the male form, you can't distinguish it in speech. Which is why I tend to use the word 'domina', when that distinction needs to be made..

I say 'dom' for 'dommes' and 'male dom' for 'doms'.

Likes your thinking :-)

Interesting. I always refer to males as just "Doms". Don't think I use a gender prefix for women.

My goal - to save women from nature (Dior)
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