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| 30 Dec 11, 4:57 PM advac1 UK(BS), 5 yrs   |
If you can come that easily, you are on balance lucky. As some have suggested, a dom might take you to the edge and keep you there, denial frequently leads to a bigger orgasm when finally allowed it.
With subs I have trained to come on command, I sometimes will get them rolling along, having 10 or more orgasms in succession....... that takes it out of them a bit | |||
| 30 Dec 11, 5:38 PM Purvection UK(M), 8 yrs     |
Yes and it was really good for both of us. It meant we could fuck for ages, then doing something different in bed for a bit then start fucking again and so on. From my end, it meant it wasn't all over in 5 minutes and for him he got as much pleasure out of fucking for fucking's sake as he did from cumming and he didn't stress about his need for a lot of stimulation. We had a lot of pretty marathon sessions as a result, which we both found very satisfying.
Aut disce aut discede. Manet sors tertia caedi | |||
| 30 Dec 11, 8:54 PM misunderstoodslave UK(OL), 2 yrs |
Oh fuck off. Really!! I wasn't trying to be mean in previous post, btw. I do understand that what seems like a wondrous gift in the eyes of some (ie me) may not be so fab if you actually want to take longer and can't. Like, despite being a lifelong fatty, I always got that it wasn't an entire breeze to be skinny either, and some of my friends genuinely found it a bind not to be able to gain weight. (I may have ground my teeth a tiny bit while expressing sympathy, but I still managed to.) However, in response to the person who took me to task earlier, yes, all assistance gratefully received: It is stupid to be an otherwise liberated 46 year old whose attitude to sex is still in the kindergarten. | |||
| 30 Dec 11, 10:01 PM humblebella UK(BS), 2 yrs |
Ha ha this really cheered me up (!) | |||
| 30 Dec 11, 10:20 PM OneKinkySlut UK(HA), 10 mths |
If only...I would love to have the same problem! | |||
| 31 Dec 11, 10:11 AM FreeKinker UK(PE), 10 yrs |
I'd say its a positive thing! Lots of fun playing at trying to control it, and lots of fun failing! For a boy sub of course it would be a real problem if it brings play to an end but for a girl? Go for it! vMaster aka Mike
Web Site: http://www.vmaster.me.uk/ | |||
| 31 Dec 11, 10:25 AM Betony UK, 7 yrs |
I'm sure it has! It doesn't make any sense in terms of how women's orgasms usually progress as they get older by the way, so I wouldn't get too worried | |||
| 31 Dec 11, 11:30 AM naruto12 UK(EH), 2 yrs |
Sounds great I was meaning combined with a woman who cums really quickly tho - just wondered if that meant added frustration?
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| 31 Dec 11, 11:42 AM ClassAct2005 UK(N), 7 yrs |
If you come once can you come quickly after? If so there isn't really a problem as you can then have a second orgasm. I've never faked an orgasm and rather just say to a man it's not going to happen than pretend. Apparently a lot of women do fake it. Fay Weldon suggested you should just fake it to please the man and his ego. May be I'm too selfish but I'm not going to a little fake floor show with stupid noises and things just to make a man feel good. On my own it takes about 15 minutes or something like that and my orgasms in terms of length and feeling are better if there's a 3 day gap. If I come every day the pleasure is not as good and they are not as long. This has been consistently so since I was 13 and whether with a man or not. | |||
| 31 Dec 11, 12:25 PM Purvection UK(M), 8 yrs |
That doesn't apply to me, although in a long session like that I'd usually have 3 to 5 orgasms before he did. Aut disce aut discede. Manet sors tertia caedi |
