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Anarchist Munch, Wed 18 Jan 2012, 7:30 PM (136)

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This event announcement is on the North London (N) topics page and the Munches web board. 23 members going: Arbuthnot, biconoclast, bitchslap, bluemagic, Candleflame, chrisp, doulos, El_apreciador, FaerieCatcher, femsup, Iphis_me, King_Key, Lady_Laurin, maidmichellepetite, manforallseasons, Mistress_Anarchy, MycroftUK, NANA777, NickMorphed, pleasureswitch, Qwoin, Saaaam, TheMarquise

29 Dec 11, 1:07 AM
Arbuthnot
UK(E), 7 yrs

Well, you certainly made things clear there, M!

I just wanted to counter the impression some people might be getting that this munch is a nest of vipers.

IT ISN'T.

There was, apparently, one obnoxious arse who was very unpleasant at one munch I missed. Apart from that, it's always been very friendly and welcoming. Neither is it full of bores droning on about the Spanish civil war, De Leonism & Syndicalism, or what I did at Newbury. Just loads of interesting and friendly people, so don't be put off.

Midweek nights are not brilliant for me, but whatever suits most people. If midweek looks best for most, maybe we could make it a different night of the week each time? That would be better for those of us who have to miss our regular night out at the ..err.. bingo on a Wednesday.

The devil is not so much in the fault as men think and will shortly be cleared of a great many slurs cast upon his good name.

29 Dec 11, 1:02 PM
TheMarquise
UK, 6 yrs
Arbuthnot wrote:
Well, you certainly made things clear there, M!

I just wanted to counter the impression some people might be getting that this munch is a nest of vipers.

IT ISN'T.

There was, apparently, one obnoxious arse who was very unpleasant at one munch I missed. Apart from that, it's always been very friendly and welcoming. Neither is it full of bores droning on about the Spanish civil war, De Leonism & Syndicalism, or what I did at Newbury. Just loads of interesting and friendly people, so don't be put off.

Midweek nights are not brilliant for me, but whatever suits most people. If midweek looks best for most, maybe we could make it a different night of the week each time? That would be better for those of us who have to miss our regular night out at the ..err.. bingo on a Wednesday.

Thanks for this comment.

Very glad we will be seeing you next month.

I will always mix the dates/times and venues for this munch, so hopefully it will not clash with any commitments you have in March.

29 Dec 11, 1:16 PM
The_Anarchist_Munch
UK(N), 16 mths
Mistress Tytania will be attending this munch.
29 Dec 11, 2:19 PM
doulos
UK(SW), 7 yrs
I hope to make it along. It was so much fun when I made it last time:)

"Democracy is the theory that the common people know what they want, and deserve to get it good and hard." H. L. Mencken

29 Dec 11, 2:31 PM
EtaCarinae
CA, 5 yrs
The_Anarchist_Munch wrote:
When Emma Goldman, anarcho feminist attended an international anarchist gathering in Europe, she met well known and regarded anarchists of the time, such as Malatesta and Kropotkin.

Not sure what Malatesta had to say to her on this occasion but Kropotkin commended her paper 'Mother Earth'. However, he personally thought it spent too long on issues such as sexual libertation and the importance of sex in concepts of human freedom.

Goldman responded with the suggestion that it may be that given Kropotkins age, matters of desire and eroticism were not uppermost in his priorities. She further stated that once she was his age, she may well be less concerned about sex and sexual liberation, but not everyone is that age yet. Kropotkin laughed and agreed with her.

This ancedote is a lead in to saying that I look forward to discussing all matters that strike one as important, relevant, intriguing, thought provoking and amusing at the next munch, kink related or otherwise. Happy to hear other perspectives and engage with lively minds for enthralling conversations.

So Inspiring ! Would love to attend this New Year Munch. That s a good question, are we sexually liberated today...? What opressions, pressures or 'mouldifications' is our society subjected to? What does it mean to be free sexually, how does this liberty express itself...how does an anarchist formulate their own ethos in their bdsm sexuality, is there an agreed tacit convention ?

29 Dec 11, 3:38 PM
Unholy_One
UK, 5 mths
Anarchists Munch?

What are the rules? :-D

29 Dec 11, 3:52 PM
pleasureswitch
UK(E), 6 yrs

Unholy_One wrote:
Anarchists Munch?

What are the rules? :-D

Respect others ! ;-)

"Yeah I like Kinky stuff,dirty dark pervy stuff,weird sex.... An' Yerself ?"
Award Winning Switch.

29 Dec 11, 4:52 PM
King_Key
UK, 6 yrs
This will be my first one so I look forward to it immensely !

:-D

" I strongly urge you to either increase the dosage or stop taking the tablets altogether ! "

29 Dec 11, 5:17 PM
TheMarquise
UK, 6 yrs
We_Three_Kings_Key wrote:
This will be my first one so I look forward to it immensely !

:-D

The innovative way you look at things, your ability to listen and to debate and your general all round soundness, means that you will fit right in!

29 Dec 11, 5:45 PM
TheMarquise
UK, 6 yrs
Intemporelle wrote:
The_Anarchist_Munch wrote:
When Emma Goldman, anarcho feminist attended an international anarchist gathering in Europe, she met well known and regarded anarchists of the time, such as Malatesta and Kropotkin.

Not sure what Malatesta had to say to her on this occasion but Kropotkin commended her paper 'Mother Earth'. However, he personally thought it spent too long on issues such as sexual libertation and the importance of sex in concepts of human freedom.

Goldman responded with the suggestion that it may be that given Kropotkins age, matters of desire and eroticism were not uppermost in his priorities. She further stated that once she was his age, she may well be less concerned about sex and sexual liberation, but not everyone is that age yet. Kropotkin laughed and agreed with her.

This ancedote is a lead in to saying that I look forward to discussing all matters that strike one as important, relevant, intriguing, thought provoking and amusing at the next munch, kink related or otherwise. Happy to hear other perspectives and engage with lively minds for enthralling conversations.

So Inspiring ! Would love to attend this New Year Munch. That s a good question, are we sexually liberated today...? What opressions, pressures or 'mouldifications' is our society subjected to? What does it mean to be free sexually, how does this liberty express itself...how does an anarchist formulate their own ethos in their bdsm sexuality, is there an agreed tacit convention ?

You will greatly missed, but very much in our thoughts.

Thank you for adding some interesting thoughts, obvservations and questions to the initial premise. You challenge us to reach higher.

What do folk think? How far are we in the quest for sexual libertion? How might Anarchists approach this subject?

My point of view is that the freedom to think and to experiment with ideas and conclusions reached, is essential. The beauty of the Anarchist Munch, and on the boards here, is that we can discuss ideas and meet people that may like to try them out in practice.

A central tenant I adhere to, in life generally, and I find it equally applicable to kink, is that what may be right for an individual or community may not work for another. As Malatesta put it "Experience through freedom is the only means to arrive at the truth and the best solutions; and there is no freedom if there is not the freedom to be wrong."

So free debate is central to Anarchist awareness. For society to develop and for people's ideas to change, these discussions need to happen. I believe that both my political and sexual ideas and actions are valid and worthy of acceptance. I recognise that there are still many misconceptions in the world at large, on both these subjects. Even here at times.

I subscribe to the notion of taking personal responsibility and am committed to the power of truth, of debate, of being the change you wish to see in the world, to ensure that ideas change, we develop and grow, as well as society at large.

From this basis of understanding, many conclusions can be reached and ways of relating adapted to current circumstances.

Edited 29 Dec 11, 5:48 PM by TheMarquise

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