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| 23 Dec 11, 8:44 PM HarbourMaster UK, 19 mths  |
Eleven years. I was actively kinky when we met, and had been for many years; she was not -- at least not in any explicit or grandly conceptualised way. She did have a very traditional, submissive view of a woman's place in a relationship -- service was something she believed to be her obligation and which made her happy. From there it is a short step to submission in a more explicitly kinky way, though she still has no interest in defining, discussing, or theorising 'her submission'. As she says, 'I want to be told what to do to make you happy, to feel useful and to be looked after.' Harbour Master. | |
| 23 Dec 11, 11:08 PM The_Bringing UK(PR), 2 yrs |
Twenty five years, just.....Where did those years go?....
Vanilla in the main at first then developing through the erotic, into the sadomasochistic with Domination and submission. During the last tend years we both have widened our interests with others, both together and as individuals....... An interesting life journey which goes on and on.... T.B | |
| 24 Dec 11, 12:54 AM Azrayel UK(MK), 4 yrs  |
One of my relationships is about to hit the four year mark. Started out with mild kink and explored a bit. He's pretty much returned to a 'vanilla' state while I have developed a rather kinkier side. Don't you just love goodbyes? | |
| 24 Dec 11, 5:32 AM Ms_Rika US, 7 mths |
23 years...during which we changed from a scene-based to a service-based dynamic. Things are much different now than they were when we first met...thank goodness!
- Rika | |
| 24 Dec 11, 7:16 AM MizzScarlett UK, 4 yrs |
We met in a fetish club and have been together for nearly 17 years; married for 13 years  "Style is the sum of all your defects." - Alan Bennett | |
| 24 Dec 11, 8:24 AM wonderer UK, 5 yrs |
Wow - some wonderful accounts here. We've been married just over 20 years; we've been through good times and bad and always stuck together, with an enduring fondness and commitment to each others' well being - whether together or apart (we don't love in each other's pockets) - reinforced by mutual affection and tolerance and forgiveness and humour and shared joys and griefs and plans to grow older together. No kink in the relationship, but loads of other good stuff. "Wisdom begins in wonder” (Socrates) | |
| 24 Dec 11, 9:07 AM Baron_Morgan UK(N), 6 yrs |
29 years, playing from the start, in the scene after 7, married after 9. | |
| 28 Dec 11, 10:36 PM Vylette UK(G), 7 yrs |
3 years today met via IC so kinky from the start  Edited 28 Dec 11, 10:51 PM by Vylette | |
| 28 Dec 11, 10:45 PM Ama_Sidero UK(GU), 7 yrs       |
18 years in primary - it started vanilla & turned kink about 13 years ago (actually, Im sure longer, but amn't sure when), but is vanilla now with me being poly. The boys I met at the same event in September 2009, so it's been just over 2 years with them. TBH, though, I wouldn't say that any of them are "primary". @Play_Space - Next party is Friday, January 6, 2012 and the first Friday of every month! Edited 28 Dec 11, 10:52 PM by Ama_Sidero | |
| 29 Dec 11, 1:39 AM chrisp UK(E), 6 yrs |
I was there. xx
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