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| Thu 22 Dec 11, 10:11 PM Graduate_1984 UK, 4 yrs  |
I had a session two days ago with a Mistress and for the first time ever, I had hot wax dripped on my back (it hurt really badily, wasn't much fun, infact I did not want to do it but that is another topic!) After the session, I foolishly pulled of the wax, anyway, I have red marks dotted around my back, just wondering if this is safe/normal, and what is the best way to get rid of the markings asap, I am spraying antiseptic on my back hoping this does the trick. | |
| 22 Dec 11, 10:48 PM bohnanza UK(FK), 12 yrs   |
The marks are mild burns/scalds, pulling the wax off will not have made any difference. There are two ways to make wax marks disappear: 1) Wait a few days 2) Don't do wax play. I have the perfect accent for conflict resolution, shame about the personality. | |
| 22 Dec 11, 11:03 PM Graduate_1984 UK, 4 yrs |
Thank you for the response, I feel better knowing that pulling of the wax didn't make it worse  I never wanted to do wax play in the first place, that's what happens when I'm restrained with a maniac mistress who lies. | |
| 22 Dec 11, 11:09 PM Monkey_Wench UK(B), 20 mths    |
I have done waxplay many times and never had red marks that lasted more than a few minutes. Maybe I have thick skin. ...and on your other topic... consent? Breathe out, so I can breathe you in, hold you in.... | |
| 22 Dec 11, 11:11 PM NightFox UK(CV), 3 yrs |
Methinks it would be wise to avoid her in the future ! NF | |
| 22 Dec 11, 11:19 PM Perplexion 13 mths |
Aloe vera capsules from a health store, melted in hot water. Apply the oil a couple of times a day. Know your Mistress in future, or at the very least her play style. | |
| 22 Dec 11, 11:20 PM misunderstoodslave UK(OL), 2 yrs |
Oh boo hoo, Benjamin. It's only fucking wax. Get over it. And either get a bit more clear about your limits or (and really better if you are a bit submissive, IMO) let her get on with stuff you don't like. Yum. I don't fancy wax, but if it were his thing it would turn me on massively just because he wanted it. It's a mindset thing. Relax and enjoy what your dominant type person wants to inflict. Or say no. As you wish. | |
| 22 Dec 11, 11:26 PM MissChameleon UK, 6 yrs |
Ohh, I used to get those marks every christmas when mucking around with the table candles. They were always gone within a couple of days at the absolute max. -no willies! no willy-adjacents! | |
| 22 Dec 11, 11:42 PM syndeetoo UK(WC), 6 yrs |
You should have left the wax on, then you would not have noticed the red marks. Pour encourager les autres | |
| 23 Dec 11, 12:08 AM MzClio UK(CF), 3 yrs      |
I always use cling film so no marks... Defiled is my name full sore Through cruel spite and false report That I may say for evermore Fairwell to joy, adieu comfort For wrongfully ye judge of me Unto my fame a mortal wound Say what ye list, it may not be Ye seek for that shall not be found.. Anne Boleyn ......circa 1503-1536 | |
| 23 Dec 11, 12:48 AM SteveDuk UK(CM), 11 yrs |
Burning clingfilm dripped,on you?
Wow, hardcore ETA for the hard of thinking, THIS WAS A JOKE. Dripping burning clingfilm on to your skin will fucking hurt. Lots @MediFet Medical Play group Edited 23 Dec 11, 12:51 AM by SteveDuk |
