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| 21 Dec 11, 7:19 PM MissMorrigan UK(BN), 7 yrs  |
My son hasn't a kinky bone in him so no opportunity, thankfully, to see him at one. As for my mother, that's another story entirely and although she's now in her 80s and has been a co-top with me in the past with some of my former boys, it's quite likely she'd fancy an evening at a munch. God help us all! The tooth fairy teaches kids to sell body parts for money ~ David Richerby | |
| 21 Dec 11, 7:31 PM fellatrix UK, 2 yrs |
If I discovered my sons were on here I'd probably delete a few of my earlier posts. smartarse | |
| 21 Dec 11, 7:48 PM Jons_Amaranth UK(WS), 11 yrs  |
My son and his partners have Ic profiles, though they use Fetlife more. I wouldn,t go to a club with them as that would just feel too wrong. Hence they slept at mine this weekend for fxxxxd up and we stayed home. I am quite happy that he is open minded and lives his life. Not sure my other son will be here, but if he does that's ok as well
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| 22 Dec 11, 4:18 PM Cheska66 UK, 7 mths |
My daughter has an inkling of what I'm "into" as she puts it. If I discovered either of them on IC I'd say nothing.I might take any face pics off my profile though! If I saw them out at a kinky event, I'd freak out slightly, then laugh to myself. | |
| 22 Dec 11, 7:14 PM viragoangel UK(FY), 5 yrs |
Wouldn't surprise me as my daughter(26)used to swing when with her ex. Knows about my kinks and has been to clubs with me and others. It's her life. Eldest son(22)is bi and fairly masso' but not really sub. Asks about what i get up to and we've always discussed sex etc.. as he finds it easier talking to me than his dad about stuff like that. As to my dad..he's called me a kinky bugger for about 20 years now and knows about my "other men". Mum, when alive, was very Domme so it wouldn't be a surprise if i'd run into one of them tho i reckon dad is too frail now. About my other 4? Who knows? Only time will tell. jules.x | |
| 23 Dec 11, 11:39 AM MissP UK(EN), 8 yrs |
I'd lend my daughter an outfit  | |
| 23 Dec 11, 11:48 AM not_lost_still_lady UK(PE), 22 mths      |
Totally freak out as my eldest is only 15 Please note that the above is my opinion. It may not be the same as your's so does that make it wrong? | |
| 23 Dec 11, 11:53 AM MistressRouge UK(B), 6 yrs £ |
I wouldnt freak out, My son knows about Me and My Mum has been to a few of My private parties and sessioned alongside Me 
My brother has also attended a party and Pedestal with Me this year
http://birminghammistress.com Edited 23 Dec 11, 11:55 AM by MistressRouge | |
| 23 Dec 11, 6:18 PM Unholy_One UK, 5 mths |
It depends on how much you are interested in the psychology of Power-Exchange, and the psychological reasons why you think they would seek a Daddy/Mommy power-exchange type of BDSM relationship.
Is it for them to fulfill a particular need that was missing in their childhood with their natural parents? Perhaps a percieved failing in their upbringing? Are they seeking something that the real parent was unable to provide, or acting out some sort of psychological fantasy scenario? It opens the whole question of what drives a person to seek any type of Power-Exchange relationship, and what sort of childhood influence (or lack of) leads that need to develop. Or, on the other hand, if it was just a meaningless "fashionable craze" they were going through as an experiment. Edited 23 Dec 11, 6:38 PM by Unholy_One | |
| 23 Dec 11, 9:16 PM skadii UK(W), 5 yrs |
Or, on the third hand, if it's part of their sexuality and doesn't need to be either pathologised or dismissed. Possible, you know. ("Your childhood must have been deficient" and "It's a phase" are two phrases I heard when I came out. I have no desire to see either trope resurrected for perves, especially on a perve site!) |
