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Bondage = Rape? Seriously? (13)

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21 Dec 11, 2:24 PM
lilybee*
UK(TN), 5 yrs

It sounds lovely, any chance you will be uploading it for us to see?

Regarding the phrase, I sometimes wonder if it is a generational thing with the same words meaning different things, eg Wicked. I'm not saying in this case it is or that it should be but it might be a possibility?

lily
If what I have written above makes no sense then just ignore me, normal service will be resumed one day.

21 Dec 11, 3:25 PM
Cosmic1
UK(SW), 7 yrs
£

Bless, sometimes what people write reflects more on what they think/want.

I was once asked to leave a fetish event because someone objected to the answer when I was asked what I enjoyed.

I said "rope bondage" and they heard rape, bondage. It took them a whole 15 minutes to calm down enough for someone to explain that they had misheard me.

I guess it is why art is best viewed subjectively.

David

London Alternative Market - the place to be on the first Sunday of the month
www.MasterCosmic.co.uk

21 Dec 11, 7:55 PM
inappropriate*
UK(CF), 3 yrs
crysta wrote:
Bondage = Rape? Seriously?

Someone commented on it saying "Getting raped and collared, two of my favs!"

...Apparently bondage = rape. Despite, y'know, the girl's demeanour clearly saying she's loving it.

It amazes me that people can be that dense. Yes, I like being tied up. No, just because I'm tied up doesn't mean I'm being raped. It's called consent. Look into it.

Some people on the kink scene use the term 'rape' when they're talking about consensual non-consent (ie: they're saying no, but they've given blanket consent before hand and they do actually get off on it), not actual rape where there is absolutely no consent.

I'm assuming it's just a case of semantics.

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