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Is this it?!! (22)

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22 Dec 11, 10:03 PM
BigOldHector
UK(DE), 10 yrs

chartreuse wrote:
What's love got to do with it?

If someone is a sub they are a sub... whether you love them or not.

Grownup_Frankie wrote:
'Is this it???'

Well, no. No, presumably as well as that long, long, looong list of rejects there's another list with just the one line on it - 'the sub who loves me, who I love'.

Absolutely everything.

Everything, that is, if you want someone (submissive or not) to fulfil all those expectations of honesty, committment, loyalty, reliability, devotion etc that you would reasonably hope to find in your partner and equal.

Or am I missing the point? And if so what is the point?

I AM THE GOD OF HELL-FIRE!.....but its my lunch break right now

25 Dec 11, 11:58 AM
chartreuse
UK(BA), 6 yrs

The point is... even if you love someone it doesn't always work out as you would wish it to.

You can love someone even if they are not a submissive; not what they claimed to be in the beginning... what you can't do is make someone you love into something they are not. If you are not compatible it doesn't matter how much you love them, you can't lose, or forsake, what you want in your life in order to please another - resentment will grow, especially if one compromises more than they should and the other makes no compromises at all!

So, loving someone has got nothing to do with them being a submissive, that's the point!

*Still seeking someone who IS as submissive as they claim to be.*

BigOldHector wrote:
chartreuse wrote:
What's love got to do with it?

If someone is a sub they are a sub... whether you love them or not.

Grownup_Frankie wrote:
'Is this it???'

Well, no. No, presumably as well as that long, long, looong list of rejects there's another list with just the one line on it - 'the sub who loves me, who I love'.

Absolutely everything.

Everything, that is, if you want someone (submissive or not) to fulfil all those expectations of honesty, committment, loyalty, reliability, devotion etc that you would reasonably hope to find in your partner and equal.

Or am I missing the point? And if so what is the point?

@The_Coven / @The_Problem_Page, you might give the advice that someone needs. / I want the "Moon on a stick and the Stars suspended from bunting". / So many haystacks, so few needles! / Conserve conversation and converse about conservation!

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