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Bodies - do you look after it? (96)

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30 Dec 11, 3:31 AM
CuteCorporal
UK, 24 mths
I've loved tall men, short men, bald men, hairy men, bikers, poets, bouncers, dreamers, skinny men, cuddly men, tattooed and pierced men, Christians, Pagans, goths and office workers but never yet a rich man... The physical appearance and scent are indeed very important on the outside, but it's what shines through from the inside that makes him truly attractive to me so I don't typify men or herd them into categories.

It's easier to describe women by a universal 'type', because unlike men we are easier to typify due to our trend-following instinct that turns some of us into gilded sheep and body shape/height. It's not sexist, it's not patronizing, it's simply men communicating their preference. Women do it too, so what?

There are people suffering on the streets while you drink tea in your comfy armchair, provoking yourself into what you believe is some kind of anti-sexism action from behind your keyboard, surely slating men should pale in comparison?

Drink up armchair warriors, fight the good fight.

This is not just S&M food, this is food for thought...

30 Dec 11, 3:34 AM
CuteCorporal
UK, 24 mths
ClassAct2005 wrote:
I've now insulted cats too. Sorry cats. This is why I am best off in a gag.

millstonegrit14 wrote:
whosthatgirl wrote:
ClassAct2005 wrote:
if you're trying to impress a woman it really isn't that great to turn up in whatever you happen to be wearing at home that afternoon which for most British men is usually absolutely dreadful dress you wouldn't want to see the cat in.

Well I probably wouldn't want to see a man wearing what the cat is usually in, for a number of reasons: 1. It would look far better on the cat, in fact some cats look damn smart at all times 2. It wouldn't fit 3. If he's wearing that, then what the hell's happened to the cat? =-o

Just saying like

cats take a supreme effort in being clean and doing their nails and always look good...more than can be said for their human owners!

Fuck the gag, just gaffer tape your hands!

Taste religion, lick a witch!
This is not just S & M food...

30 Dec 11, 6:43 AM
EtInArcadiaEgo
UK(MK), 2 yrs

No! No! I'm afraid that we're just going to continue to pretend that women aren't 'shallow like that' and that all we need is a blinding personality and a spot of witty repartee!

ConsciousnessJunkie wrote:
LittleMissViolent wrote:
Get your D&G out, gents. It's got naff all to do with your character, or the effort you make.

You do realise this is a thread about physical bodies rather than personalities?

Or did you miss the point?

30 Dec 11, 7:10 AM
ClassAct2005
UK(N), 7 yrs
This would be a very good list for most men to follow particularly those who have no idea how to dress (most of them).

My only disagreement is on short sleeve shirts - never wear them. They are worn at work by bearded scientists with white cubby arms and it is never a good look.

Paulontheball wrote:
For me it's important to look after yourself physically and put a bit of effort into how you dress.

For me that means going to the gym 5 times a week and eating sensibly.

The proof of the pudding is that I'm nearly 6ft, twelve and half stone, athletic and good muscle tone whilst all my mates the same age as me (middle aged) have beer guts, lack energy, and generally look ten yrs older (I've tried telling them but theyre not interested!!).

It's important to do a bit of grooming too, clean shaven, tight haircut, smooth shaved balls and tightly trimmed pubes are important.

In terms of smellies - aftershave, forget the latest fashionable smelly and go for a good quality (cheap doesnt cut it here!), and slightly subtle cologne that communicates sophistication - I like Loccitane, but there are other good ones, each to their own. And don't forget to moisturise - I learnt that in later life after being introduced to it by somebody - it makes all the difference to the skin!

In terms of dressing, dress your age (I.e. a middle aged guy in a cheap hoodie looks like somebody trying too hard to be young, has been dressed by somebody who wants to try and mold them to be somebody different, wants to deliberately look chav, or just doesn't have a clue).

Formal wear... . I'm slim so I choose tailored shirts from jermyn st in London - wait for the sales and buy good £60 + shirts for less than £20 - but don't buy long sleeve shirts with a breast pocket - that's a real no-no and spells cheap! (but is ok for short sleeved shirts).

Same for suits, wait for the sales and buy expensive suits (£750 +) reduced down to less than what you would normally buy in M&S - I.e less than £200 - you can tell the difference and the better suits actually work out cheaper because they last twice as long!

Same for ties, wait for sales and buy £45 ties reduced down to less than £20 - don't buy silly patterns or little animal prints etc - go for sophisticated as its one of the things people will judge you by.

Formal shoes, choose Loakes or Grensons - and don't wear brogues for work - dare I say sales again!

Cufflinks - don't go for the comedy factor, choose carefully, discrete and colour coordinated.

Casual - believe it or not Primark jeans are good and actually much better for the slimmer/athletic shape - I find that they are just as good as £50 + jeans that your'll buy from next or similar (and who gives a stuff about labels!).

T Shirts - from wherever, but no tacky pictures or words please...

Polo shirts, change every year or two and again buy good quality but reduced in price from the sales.

I buy from certain brands, not because of the labels (they're not visible anyway), but because I can't stand buying crap! - these include Charles Tyrwhitt, Crew Clothing, TM Lewin etc.

It's not hard to look and feel good - regular exercise, eat and drink sensibly and buy good quality clothes in the sales for less than you would on the local high st. 

The thing is, when you fit and dress well, you feel better about yourself as well.  

That's just my humble opinion anyway. 

Sits back and waits for the torrent of abuse.........

30 Dec 11, 7:10 AM
ClassAct2005
UK(N), 7 yrs
This would be a very good list for most men to follow particularly those who have no idea how to dress (most of them).

My only disagreement is on short sleeve shirts - never wear them. They are worn at work by bearded scientists with white cubby arms and it is never a good look.

Paulontheball wrote:
For me it's important to look after yourself physically and put a bit of effort into how you dress.

For me that means going to the gym 5 times a week and eating sensibly.

The proof of the pudding is that I'm nearly 6ft, twelve and half stone, athletic and good muscle tone whilst all my mates the same age as me (middle aged) have beer guts, lack energy, and generally look ten yrs older (I've tried telling them but theyre not interested!!).

It's important to do a bit of grooming too, clean shaven, tight haircut, smooth shaved balls and tightly trimmed pubes are important.

In terms of smellies - aftershave, forget the latest fashionable smelly and go for a good quality (cheap doesnt cut it here!), and slightly subtle cologne that communicates sophistication - I like Loccitane, but there are other good ones, each to their own. And don't forget to moisturise - I learnt that in later life after being introduced to it by somebody - it makes all the difference to the skin!

In terms of dressing, dress your age (I.e. a middle aged guy in a cheap hoodie looks like somebody trying too hard to be young, has been dressed by somebody who wants to try and mold them to be somebody different, wants to deliberately look chav, or just doesn't have a clue).

Formal wear... . I'm slim so I choose tailored shirts from jermyn st in London - wait for the sales and buy good £60 + shirts for less than £20 - but don't buy long sleeve shirts with a breast pocket - that's a real no-no and spells cheap! (but is ok for short sleeved shirts).

Same for suits, wait for the sales and buy expensive suits (£750 +) reduced down to less than what you would normally buy in M&S - I.e less than £200 - you can tell the difference and the better suits actually work out cheaper because they last twice as long!

Same for ties, wait for sales and buy £45 ties reduced down to less than £20 - don't buy silly patterns or little animal prints etc - go for sophisticated as its one of the things people will judge you by.

Formal shoes, choose Loakes or Grensons - and don't wear brogues for work - dare I say sales again!

Cufflinks - don't go for the comedy factor, choose carefully, discrete and colour coordinated.

Casual - believe it or not Primark jeans are good and actually much better for the slimmer/athletic shape - I find that they are just as good as £50 + jeans that your'll buy from next or similar (and who gives a stuff about labels!).

T Shirts - from wherever, but no tacky pictures or words please...

Polo shirts, change every year or two and again buy good quality but reduced in price from the sales.

I buy from certain brands, not because of the labels (they're not visible anyway), but because I can't stand buying crap! - these include Charles Tyrwhitt, Crew Clothing, TM Lewin etc.

It's not hard to look and feel good - regular exercise, eat and drink sensibly and buy good quality clothes in the sales for less than you would on the local high st. 

The thing is, when you fit and dress well, you feel better about yourself as well.  

That's just my humble opinion anyway. 

Sits back and waits for the torrent of abuse.........

30 Dec 11, 11:47 AM
Beau_Tox
UK(CB), 7 yrs


ClassAct2005 wrote:
My only disagreement is on short sleeve shirts - never wear them. They are worn at work by bearded scientists with white cubby arms and it is never a good look.

FACT.

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