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| Reality1234 |
On one of the fetish forums I once read about a woman who dreamed of owning a beautiful and well made wedding dress. The catch was that she was forced to wear it only when it was time for the darkest acts of depravity or punishment to be performed on her. The extravagant, high quality dress with its poorly maintained state covered in 'markings', small rips and stains providing a psychological control of her even before the point of putting it on, even at the mere point of mentioning it she is stirred with emotion. Whether the feeling she got would be excitement, fear, or both was not clear from her writing.
To me, this scenario of routine and control is thought provoking, something I am sure people in this lifestyle have done themselves in some form or another but on what level? This would differ greatly depending on the people involved and the dynamic of their relationship but when I think about something like this, I feel if done right it would be a symbol that fully defines and cements the wearer's role. The experiences they have endured during previous occasions while wearing it would need to hit or push their limits of who they are, to a point which is not often matched elsewhere in their interaction. Only then would just the thought itself of fetching and putting on that garment be enough to induce levels of emotion that are great enough to hold a grip on the submissive and for a dominant party to use as a form of control or effective punishment. This is definitely something I want to try one day!
| 18 Dec 11, 10:08 AM ksublady UK(DA), 6 yrs  |
Ok......now I know what I want for Christmas!!!  |
| 18 Dec 11, 1:06 PM candle_in_the_wind UK(RM), 5 yrs |
I have a wedding dress for sale. I did think about keeping it for this very scenario - when a suitable "groom" comes along- but I need the space in my wardrobe
The Gene Pool could use a little Chlorine |
| 8 Jan 12, 10:36 AM Reality1234 UK(BN), 6 yrs |
Keep it! The day might come where you need it and regret selling it. Then what will you do? :p |
