This post is on the Pro-Mistresses etc web board (moved from Other BDSM).
| Fri 16 Dec 11, 10:43 PM ConsciousnessJunkie UK(N), 5 yrs   |
Back when I was single I often wondered if there was such a thing as a pro male sub. I mean I know that the lovely Sir Stephen does a fine line in pro domming, and I've seen pro female subs a fair few times. But is there any demand out there for pro male subs for women rather than men? I often thought (when I was single) it would have been nice to just have someone come round and let me indulge in those activities that *I* wanted to with a complete no strings attached thing going on. But someone where I could just pick them, rather than having to trawl through endless personal ads and hoping the one I fancied might be interested. I do have a slight ulterior motive. I'd rather like to photograph a professional male sub, if one exists. Make some portraits. Tell their story I guess. I dunno, some arty shit like that. But feel free to add your thoughts in general about pro male subs and if you've ever seen or heard of such a rare beast. I'm curious to see if I'm the only person who would have made use of one, or if there are others. | |
| 16 Dec 11, 10:51 PM AshUK UK(EN), 7 yrs £ |
So.... you're asking if there are any male subs out there willing to be paid for the privilege of being beaten and abused ? *stands back so as not to get crushed in the stampede* " Pow ! Right in the kisser ! " | |
| 16 Dec 11, 10:54 PM MisterBear UK(WA), 8 yrs   |
I think there are quite a few out there who would probably do it for free, however it's trying to find the ones who can be professional about it. And then if they turn out to be good then they could end up snapped up and then maybe unavailable. How about seeing if there are any Dommes who want to pimp out their sub/slave? Can you tell I'm bored and have nothing better to do with my life? | |
| 16 Dec 11, 11:01 PM ConsciousnessJunkie UK(N), 5 yrs |
I think you're missing the point. You pay a pro because you know they will do what they say on the tin. Turn up, carry out your wishes and then leave with no further emotional contact. You don't have to worry about them fancying you or finding you attractive, you don't have to worry if one day things might get messy and emotional. They're a pro, doing a job. You get to pick the prettiest one from the shelf, the one that you really like. Except when I was looking for the shelf, I couldn't even find the bleedin' shop... Am I really the only one who has ever thought it would be great to have a service like this available? | |
| 16 Dec 11, 11:02 PM ConsciousnessJunkie UK(N), 5 yrs |
But that's the point, isn't it? You're not looking for someone who might do it for free, you're looking for someone who has made it their profession. Someone who has built their profession on being trustworthy and doing a good job. There's a massive difference between paying someone for a service and trading with them. | |
| 16 Dec 11, 11:35 PM NANA777 UK(SW), 3 yrs |
As long as I know(heard from gay friends), some gay/bi male pro subs for gay/bi male would not mind doing a session for female as well. Maybe you already know it. Nothing surprising, really. Lesbian(=not bi!) prostitutes even sleep with men for money, so why not gay pro subs for women! | |
| 16 Dec 11, 11:37 PM Eleuther UK(DH), 3 yrs |
That may (I conjecture) be part of the problem, i.e. one of the chicken and egg variety. 'They weren't dreams like ours (in the midst of the darkness, we dreamed of more darkness, because nothing else came into our minds); no, she dreamed - from what we could understand of her ravings - of a darkness a hundred times deeper and more various and velvety.' (Qfwfq) | |
| 17 Dec 11, 8:01 AM FaerieCatcher UK(NW), 6 yrs |
I know one. I will send him to this thread.... | |
| 17 Dec 11, 12:59 PM Tara_Red UK(B), 5 yrs £ |
Gosh your probably the first woman to ever ask for one on these boards. There's been loads of threads written by males wanting to be a male sub asking if there any call for pro male subs and we've all said - yes if you're gay. Occasionally a wealthy female wanting no strings may want one but because there are hundreds of single male subs out there wanting play ladies can pick and choose, but as you say if you have the money you could just pick up the phone and like me a professional turns up on the doorstep with all their own equipment (or you go to their dungeon) and you have a session to your terms and then walk away no strings. Without trawling through the personals or placing your own ad and getting inundated with one line memos the quickest way if you find yourself single again is to attend a play club, always lots of sub males waiting to be played with and esp at Pedestal. You can find sex workers that have ticked the boxes for domination on adultwork and backpage etc but although I have seen lots of female pro subs/spankees advertising the male ones are manily on the gay sites such as gaydar & recon etc
Pro submissive & switch with great dungeon & LOTS of toys! Edited 17 Dec 11, 1:15 PM by Tara_Red | |
| 17 Dec 11, 4:16 PM Miss_Katie_TV UK(SL), 4 yrs £ |
What an interesting idea, as a Pro TV Dom/sub I am sometimes asked to Dom as a man. That I can do as under all my makeup and feminine clothes I am still a man and can be very dominant, but I have never been asked to be a sub as a man by either a man or a woman. Having thought about it I have decided I don't think I could do it anyway as my mindset as a man is in no way submissive whereas in feminine role I can be very submissive indeed. As I said very interesting, it certainly got me looking at myself and how I think in my different personas. | |
| 17 Dec 11, 7:20 PM Tara_Red UK(B), 5 yrs £ |
Interesting - I sent Nina Jay work to be a pro male sub and she turned it down even though the client would not have known the person who turned up was Nina Jay. Nina is Nina 24/7 end of whether sub, switch or domme.
Pro submissive & switch with great dungeon & LOTS of toys! |
