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Next O & P Open in Manchester, Sat 11 Feb 2012, 1:00 PM (22)

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4 Feb 12, 8:25 AM
totallycoverme
UK(M), 4 yrs
mia wrote:
totallycoverme wrote:
Awww I can't make it.

Boo!

x

Innit!!!!

I'll miss seeing y'all and it looks like there are some really interesting topics lined up too.

Master will have to do impressions of me to make up for it lol :)xx

It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice :)xx

7 Feb 12, 10:27 PM
pinkylucy
UK(M), 9 yrs


totallycoverme - I love the image of your Master doing impressions of you! lol.

Mia, your topic suggestion of dominance and submission vs control and compliance sounds really interesting. I've had a piunding headache all evening so can't wrap my head around it tonight but I know I'd love to talk about it!

"Don't Dream It, Be It" - The Rocky Horror Show 1973

7 Feb 12, 10:42 PM
secretsmile_101
UK(M), 18 mths


What @pinkylucy said (except without the headache)!

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8 Feb 12, 7:26 PM
mia*
UK(M), 4 yrs



I thought of another idea for a topic:

As a sub do you feel you are unworthy of the attention of your dominant? Doms do you feel grateful that your sub serves you? Does the idea of being grateful have any part in your relationship and do you think it should?

x

Now where were we? Ah, yes - abject humiliation!
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9 Feb 12, 4:09 PM
Hartless
UK(S), 2 yrs


Topic suggestion...

Reactance. How would you define it, have you experienced it, what happened etc

Resistance is futile.

11 Feb 12, 11:23 AM
secretsmile_101
UK(M), 18 mths


For Group 1 of the seperate discussions: Do you feel like you have to maintain an image or role of confidence & authority? If so, how does it affect you and your relationship? (Thanks to lucy for inspiring this idea!)

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11 Feb 12, 11:42 AM
misunderstoodslave
UK(OL), 2 yrs
I'm sorry but I can't come now, so offering my apologies. I was interested in the topics too, especially around being grateful as I feel grateful a lot about all sorts of stuff.

I'm furious I can't attend. Hope very much to be at the next one.

11 Feb 12, 1:02 PM
HalloweenWhite
UK(TF), 7 yrs


secretsmile_101 wrote:
For Group 1 of the seperate discussions: Do you feel like you have to maintain an image or role of confidence & authority? If so, how does it affect you and your relationship? (Thanks to lucy for inspiring this idea!)

Damn even more p****ed off I couldn't come today, this is a really interesting question and it'd be really useful to Me personally to hear what P/people thought.

Sadder still to watch it die than never to have have known it.

12 Feb 12, 10:50 AM
MixAndMatch
UK(S), 3 yrs


Thank-you for an excellent meeting!

I got a lot from the discussions, especially onreactance, and I think the part where we split into groups worked particularly well.

I'm very glad I made it, and am looking forward to the next one - hope it's on soon.

@SouthYorkshireMunch 4th Sunday of each month Also on fetlife

12 Feb 12, 12:40 PM
Tanos*
UK(M), 14 yrs

I really enjoyed it and it all worked really well including the new part of splitting into D/O/M and s/p/s subgroups.

Well done hannah :) and I'm looking forward to future discussion events.

:T:

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