Club Play Ideas (21)

Your post is clearly about PLAYING IN A CLUB. I understand that. I would like to PLAY IN A CLUB, but only if I can find the rich, successful, solvent man of my dreams. All the men I have met have been feckless drug-addled losers, wearing trainers and tracksuits. None of them were suitable partners for a successful, intelligent, slim and attractive woman like myself. I hope that in the new year this will change.

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The easiest way to complete numb the clit and desensitise it esp if used regularly this way becomes harder to orgasm and takes a lot longer.

Better to play about with it all over the pussy and groin area and inside of thighs get them begging for more then press lightly against the clit. After a few orgasms and it's having less effect then press firmly and turn the speed up!

You get much more use out of it this way and doesn't desensitise the clit as much in the long run.

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What he said. Erotic tied impact play.

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Good luck in your hunt, their are some genuine people on this, and other sites. I hope you get to experience your desires soon.

We have played for a while but just not in public. I think the plan will be to loiter for a while and observe what is going on. I am sure it won't take long for the excitement to build and we give the equipment a go.

Hope that gives you some ideas.

Hannah

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All I was pointing out was actually that if she has never tried anything before then how can she know? The fear of pain and the pre conception that pain is not pleasurable is based in the mind. I was actually pointing that out, as a thought to keep in mind based on her reactions, if it's a first time then you never know and if you continue to read on then you will find that i also say it's not the only thing you can do, pain is not the be all and end all, but fundamentally until you try how do you know? I feel i have now opened a can of worms and started a debate, or maybe i have not, to be quite honest I don't really care so long as the op and his play friend enjoy themselves, and experiment, she might grow to realise dull thuddy impact creates a "pain" she likes or sharp stingy. untill you warm up and try things there is no right or wrong so long as it's between two people who wish to learn, and have open communication.

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That would depend on the actual club and the ratio of equipment to guests.

At Ann & Roly's, we don't limit how long people use individual items for because there is a good amount of equipment and there has been no need to suggest time limits.

15-30 mins seems like a typical amount of time used on a given piece of equipment by most people, but some go considerably over that and that's absolutely fine.

Same as usual.

Turn up early, don't be shy, get straight on the equipment and play about on it how ever you wish (without deliberately trying to break it). In my experience, at most events the bondage furniture tends to suddenly be full after a certain time of being empty. So get on it early and get your moneys worth.

But what do I know I'm just a dirty sexpig.

That's excellent advice.

I would have thought that most club organisers love to see equipment being put to good use right from the start of a party.

I know that when I show newcomers around our club, it's always great to see the equipment being in use and it creates a very good impression for the new guests too. It also inspires and encourages others to do the same too ( not that our guests need much encouragement ! ).