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| Tue 6 Dec 11, 10:18 PM DeCoverley UK(GL), 4 yrs |
My new sub is very keen to feel owned, possessed… what I'd like to do is devise a ritual to cement it, as it were, and I'm sure many of you have done this already – suggestions please? Also I'd like her to have a small permanent reminder. I don't want to have her pierced or tattooed (yet, anyway – we haven't known each other very long), so again, creative suggestions would be welcome.
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| 6 Dec 11, 10:26 PM canupleaseme UK(S), 3 yrs  |
I made my boy remain unshaven for a week before we had our little ceremony and I shaved him as part of it and that felt quite empowing and like I owned him more. So maybe shaving her lady bits? Sorry thats all I can think of the rest was kinda relevant only to us. Ohh there was also lots of candles and he was made to sleep chained to the bedpost on the floor that night. Kink friendly Beauty therapist all enquiries welcome | |
| 6 Dec 11, 10:28 PM IrrepressibleSoul  UK(OX), 24 mths  |
well collaring is probably the most well known one....can be something a little more discreet for everyday than big ones with spikes everywhere  - for more public wear......something a little more akin to a necklace.......but a constant reminder stillGoddamn it Amazon!!...how am I supposed to buy Xmas prezzies when you keep wanting me to press a "SUBMIT" button!?! | |
| 6 Dec 11, 10:28 PM dannigirl1 UK(CV), 2 yrs  |
I wear Masters tag round my neck every day, its says property of Domincov on it. We are 24/7 and when i get home i change it to the leather collar he choose for me, but the tag round my neck reminds me what i am and who i belong to.
I also like to touch it and hold it if i feel stressed and/or worried, it calms me  Walk on the Wildside Edited 6 Dec 11, 10:29 PM by dannigirl1 | |
| 6 Dec 11, 10:29 PM Miss_Zelda_Amazon UK(WR), 6 yrs |
My Mistress , now my wife ( still Mistress) gave me an ampalange piercing as part of my ownership ritual ! | |
| 6 Dec 11, 10:29 PM DeCoverley UK(GL), 4 yrs |
Yes, that's a good idea And the collaring, yes, goes without saying... but she'll have to take it off when she goes home, as she has kids etc. | |
| 6 Dec 11, 10:32 PM IrrepressibleSoul UK(OX), 24 mths |
well thats why you might consider something that looks like a necklace to the outside....for example - a thin/fine silver band/necklace/choker.....whatever suits....but you know what it is... Goddamn it Amazon!!...how am I supposed to buy Xmas prezzies when you keep wanting me to press a "SUBMIT" button!?! | |
| 6 Dec 11, 10:34 PM ClassAct2005 UK(N), 7 yrs |
Close necklace round the neck can be fine for not being taken off as it looks like jewellery at home. Looks much nicer than those awful leather collars you see too. Make up some rules perhaps. Both sign them, a sort of non disclosure agreement whilst you both sound each other out, do your physical and emotional due diligence in the early stages of a relationship, kind of option to purchase document as it were. | |
| 6 Dec 11, 10:37 PM pleasureswitch UK(E), 6 yrs |
Get her to cook an serve You a really nice meal, You formally dressed she naked and if she's been good is presented wit a toy that can be worn or stuffed ( I do like sparkly butt plugs )as a sign of offical acceptance. "Yeah I like Kinky stuff,dirty dark pervy stuff,weird sex....
An' Yerself ?" | |
| 6 Dec 11, 11:11 PM Ironsmith UK(CW), 8 yrs |
How about getting her "chipped" ? It's done all the time to pets. A tiny transponder is implanted under the skin, in the back of the neck. It's very quick, and practically painless. It leaves no permanent mark. But the code on the chip can be read with the appropriate reader. It's secret, permanent, and the wearer can't remove it. HOWEVER: It can be an issue if the wearer has to have an MRI scan. And it shows up on X-rays, but not on airport security scans - too small.
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| 6 Dec 11, 11:16 PM Belasarius UK(M), 8 yrs      |
We did the human black pudding thing, becoming bloodbound, consuming each other and feeling we had created our own sacrament.
We mixed and baked it with friends. She had flowers in her hair and we recited a Michelangelo sonnet. We felt very special. I think we may do it again. ETA links My goal - to save women from nature (Dior) Edited 7 Dec 11, 9:05 AM by Belasarius |
