6 Dec 11, 11:35 AM
hollythedolly
UK(NN), 2 yrs
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Frayed_Knot wrote:
can not work out who to quote and reply to..it early innit!
I was asking about breath play, I was asking in this point who had the actual knowledge. I know it is a hard thing to get an answer for. I honestly do not care if the person never brushes there teeth or smells of BO but if they know what NO2 is if they know cpr if it goes slightly askew, if they know warning signs, if they know there stuff. I am not looking to marry own be owned have a loving relationship with, was looking for compentency(sp) in a certain area, same way if you wanted to be suspended you would want to know someone actually knew how to do rope which areas of your body to suspend by safely..
someone asked if I was looking for play or advice actually both and in both instances whoever name I finally got or went for, I would still go by gut instinct in the end because I trust that but at least need a pointer of whom to go to.
To the person who mentioned trusting and deep connection with the person, maybe that works for you but to be honest a lot of time when I am bottoming I am a twisted thrill seeker and just want to have a modicum of safety in the back of my head but beyond that the fear is most of the thrill.It is not about Ds and trusting the person and giving myself its about sm and the moments of awesomeness
Again thank you for all the responses..
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Your first post did not come across as though it was just breath play you was enquiring about.I think thats why people answered the way they did.
@volcanic_sparks does breath play maybe she is one to ask |
6 Dec 11, 11:37 AM
Helen_Back
UK(MK), 4 yrs
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hollythedolly wrote:
Frayed_Knot wrote:
can not work out who to quote and reply to..it early innit!
I was asking about breath play, I was asking in this point who had the actual knowledge. I know it is a hard thing to get an answer for. I honestly do not care if the person never brushes there teeth or smells of BO but if they know what NO2 is if they know cpr if it goes slightly askew, if they know warning signs, if they know there stuff. I am not looking to marry own be owned have a loving relationship with, was looking for compentency(sp) in a certain area, same way if you wanted to be suspended you would want to know someone actually knew how to do rope which areas of your body to suspend by safely..
someone asked if I was looking for play or advice actually both and in both instances whoever name I finally got or went for, I would still go by gut instinct in the end because I trust that but at least need a pointer of whom to go to.
To the person who mentioned trusting and deep connection with the person, maybe that works for you but to be honest a lot of time when I am bottoming I am a twisted thrill seeker and just want to have a modicum of safety in the back of my head but beyond that the fear is most of the thrill.It is not about Ds and trusting the person and giving myself its about sm and the moments of awesomeness
Again thank you for all the responses..
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Your first post did not come across as though it was just breath play you was enquiring about.I think thats why people answered the way they did.
@volcanic_sparks does breath play maybe she is one to ask
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I was mostly asking for a general resource for all play, but specifically at this moment for myself was looking at breath play.
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6 Dec 11, 11:41 AM
Helen_Back
UK(MK), 4 yrs
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Meant Nitrous oxide not nitrous dioxide btw... back to tea and cleaning |
6 Dec 11, 12:06 PM
LordDarkflame
UK, 5 yrs
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Well...she's certainly got the lungs for it <g>
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6 Dec 11, 1:01 PM
sir_joe_sw
UK(TA), 2 yrs
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I am very skilled in the art of caning and birching. The fact is you can only carry out what you are asked to do by someone who may not know what they want, this is where experience kicks in, you know when someone is struggling and is in real pain beyond their limit. |
6 Dec 11, 3:24 PM
Esinem
UK(SE), 12 yrs
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7 Dec 11, 4:20 AM
SubWhisperer
UK, 5 yrs
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Well – if your “personal” question (behind the generalities) is -
“Who is a good person to approach to experience breath play, given that I am the one who's choice it is” ….....
Then (behind the wording) you are effectively looking for a “pro” who is considered to be good at what you seek
As has been suggested, not all “pros” are worth their salt – but in this one particular matter, there is someone who has posted a reply on here who (probably) knows more than most.
Now we have an entirely new issue – it's not up to “us” to recommend that person – nor is it up to “us” to suggest that that person would even play with you.
I think that the most constructive answer I can give you at this stage – is that “the person who is best placed to give you what you seek is now obviously aware of your desires, and if said person gets in contact, then what happens next is up to the pair of you”.
In answer to “Is there a resource beyond word of mouth for players who are top of their game? - the answer has to be “Yes – IC – but you have to monitor the posts and form your own opinion – not ask for ours – or it reverts to being by word of mouth (albeit our mouths on here)” …......
It may not be the easiest of answers – but it is the most honest one ….......
We can't expect an “elite” list …... but a persons posting history is a dead giveaway. And behind all the bluff and bluster we each like to create about ourselves, this is where IC pins us to the wall like butterflies …... Ever wondered who the devil comes to for ideas ?
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9 Dec 11, 4:39 AM
Beau_Tox
UK(CB), 7 yrs
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Frayed_Knot wrote:
I was asking about breath play, I was asking in this point who had the actual knowledge. I know it is a hard thing to get an answer for. I honestly do not care if the person never brushes there teeth or smells of BO but if they know what NOz is if they know cpr if it goes slightly askew, if they know warning signs, if they know there stuff.
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I know what NOz is, I can make a CPR, I do brush my teeth and I smell of BO. So I am by far the most qualified of people for you to play with.
*puts hand up* Pick me, pick me! No stalkerz, no nillaz and definitely NO singing psycho-babez.
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9 Dec 11, 10:28 AM
chrisp
UK(E), 6 yrs
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mornington_crescent wrote:
A dom being pro doesn't necessarily mean anything.
For instance, the best and worst caners I've ever seen (in my opinion) were both pro doms. And I've played with the lady whom I consider to be the best, so it's not just by observation. Unfortunately she's in Australia, so no use recommending her to folks here!
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Sorry for the off post thingy.
I'm off to Oz soon so who do you recommend?
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9 Dec 11, 11:58 AM
redcat
9 yrs
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SubWhisperer wrote:
Frayed_Knot wrote:
I believe coca cola squirted up you bits is the safest way of birth control in loving play as well..
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Diet coke proved to be the most effective ......
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I always find following the coke with a packet of Mentos makes sure things really are safe.
Buy a copy of Beyond the Circle
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