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Where do you draw the line? (14)

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30 Nov 11, 11:31 PM
Londonista
UK(E), 2 yrs

I'd be down with that. Providing that he signed a legally binding agreement to pay for laser tattoo removal should we ever break-up. And it wasn't of a steaming shit or a cartoon-f*cking-character or a chinese symbol ..that bit being fairly important. So I suppose I should probably retract my first sentence.

1 Dec 11, 8:09 PM
MrBromley
UK(EN), 3 yrs

Hmmmm. Is this tattoo incident an excerpt from lifestyles of the rich and the famous? Or perhaps an excerpt from Kirsty's 'Idiots do idiotic things'?

Or, perhaps......I've heard that laser tatoo removal is very painful, so perhaps his idea was to do a tattoo so bad that she would have to go through the pain of having it removed.

Still, they come across as a couple that deserve each other. Aaaaaarrrrrrrrrrh!

1 Dec 11, 8:31 PM
TheFalconer
UK(S), 6 yrs

misunderstoodslave wrote:
It's the old thing of saying I don't have limits, in the reasonably certain knowledge that the person in charge may do terrible things but will have limits of their own, which chime with your values to a greater or lesser degree, hence you are in a relationship in the first place.

Indeed. Anyone who chooses to submit completely to the will of another person should ensure before doing so that the other person is someone to whom they will find it agreeable to submit to.

"Morality, like art, means drawing a line someplace." - Oscar Wilde

1 Dec 11, 8:35 PM
mmutie
UK, 7 yrs

Jarrxe wrote:
Where do you draw the line?

A recent news item got me thinking that as a sub where would you draw the line in handing control over to a Dom?

It's a very moronic thing that guy did — no debate, but he claims that her gf signed a consent form of artist's discretion. If this was in a D/s relationship and a Dom wanted to do it as a test of submission, would anyone go along with it?

I think this is one of those hypotheticals that doesn't really have much relevance to d/s, it's simply an extreme act (if it's actually true) of revenge.