28 Nov 11, 10:55 PM angelbrat UK(SM), 3 yrs 
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..Put you in a strict standing hogtie then make you stand facing a wall with a penny held to the wall by your nose for 10 minutes....
Im proud to say i completed the task and the penny didnt drop 
AB If I had a world of my own, everything would be nonsense. Nothing would be what it is because everything would be what it isn't. And contrary-wise; what it is it wouldn't be, and what it wouldn't be, it would. You see?
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28 Nov 11, 11:05 PM SoulinPurgatory UK, 12 mths |
He whispers very quietly what he wants to do to you and all you can think of is OMG, then he makes you ask him to do it to you!!!!!
He always seems to know what you are thinking just before you do...
Makes you ask for things that he knows you really really dislike to get something you really really want and like. Then asks you do both.
Gives you a taste of something you really really enjoy and you relax into just before he changes to do something that makes you uncomfortable.. |
28 Nov 11, 11:31 PM naughtyskibunny UK(SW), 2 yrs
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Yes to 1,2 and 4. More is the pity it is a no to number 3...there is no exchange of taking nasty ouchy stuff for something lovely...but I get something wonderful...the bestest Dom hugs ever! And, cos he's an amazing Dom (thankfully not reading this or his ego would be dangerously inflated), I get drinks or similar time with him afterwards to come down safely...otherwise I end up crying all the time on my own..subdrop is so awful it just can't happen.
PipersCollaredSlave wrote:
He whispers very quietly what he wants to do to you and all you can think of is OMG, then he makes you ask him to do it to you!!!!!
He always seems to know what you are thinking just before you do...
Makes you ask for things that he knows you really really dislike to get something you really really want and like. Then asks you do both.
Gives you a taste of something you really really enjoy and you relax into just before he changes to do something that makes you uncomfortable..
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Sugar and spice and all things nice are what I 'could' be made of...
Edited 28 Nov 11, 11:52 PM by naughtyskibunny
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28 Nov 11, 11:47 PM etty_face UK(S), 4 yrs
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Spot on.
AshUK wrote:
I think the ' awful things a dom ( good or otherwise ) will make you do ' will vary from relationship to relationship.
In my opinion, the one thing that a good dom will do is change you.
One day you will look in the mirror and see someone who has done things for him that you never thought you were capable of. Who has experienced things you never imagined, until he made you experience them.
And when that change comes, it may bring with it conflicting emotions - pride, shame, desire, satisfaction, achievement - but whatever it is, it will change you.
With a good dom, you will never be the same again.
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29 Nov 11, 12:17 AM Ama_Sidero UK(GU), 7 yrs

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Piss in a glass then drink it cold in the morning?
*looks innocent* @Play_Space - Next party is 23 October, Sunday, 5 to Midnight!
Road Trip to the Sea!!! The October trip has tJust elapsed...More info here.
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29 Nov 11, 12:23 AM Shypeachybottom UK, 20 mths
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AshUK wrote:
I think the ' awful things a dom ( good or otherwise ) will make you do ' will vary from relationship to relationship.
In my opinion, the one thing that a good dom will do is change you.
One day you will look in the mirror and see someone who has done things for him that you never thought you were capable of. Who has experienced things you never imagined, until he made you experience them.
And when that change comes, it may bring with it conflicting emotions - pride, shame, desire, satisfaction, achievement - but whatever it is, it will change you.
With a good dom, you will never be the same again.
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^^ exactly this... and with a good submissive, a dom will never be the same either, he will be changed by her too..
There's a somebody I'm longing to see, I hope that he turns out to be, someone to watch over me
I'm a little lamb who's lost in the wood, I know I could always be good, to one who'll watch over me (Ella Fitzgerald)
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29 Nov 11, 12:40 AM Toots UK(S), 7 yrs 
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Smiles and Totally agrees....
*waves finger side to side to those who are thinking of disagreeing.. 
LondonShyGirl wrote:
AshUK wrote:
I think the ' awful things a dom ( good or otherwise ) will make you do ' will vary from relationship to relationship.
In my opinion, the one thing that a good dom will do is change you.
One day you will look in the mirror and see someone who has done things for him that you never thought you were capable of. Who has experienced things you never imagined, until he made you experience them.
And when that change comes, it may bring with it conflicting emotions - pride, shame, desire, satisfaction, achievement - but whatever it is, it will change you.
With a good dom, you will never be the same again.
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^^ exactly this... and with a good submissive, a dom will never be the same either, he will be changed by her too..
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This is an interesting world I find myself in — an interesting hole I find myself in — fits me rather neatly, doesn't it? In fact it fits me staggeringly well, must have been made to have me in it!!
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29 Nov 11, 7:39 AM River_Deep UK, 6 yrs
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Waggle all you want as I do not agree with this, as a whole statement! 
Toots wrote:
Smiles and Totally agrees....
*waves finger side to side to those who are thinking of disagreeing.. 
LondonShyGirl wrote:
AshUK wrote:
I think the ' awful things a dom ( good or otherwise ) will make you do ' will vary from relationship to relationship.
In my opinion, the one thing that a good dom will do is change you.
One day you will look in the mirror and see someone who has done things for him that you never thought you were capable of. Who has experienced things you never imagined, until he made you experience them.
And when that change comes, it may bring with it conflicting emotions - pride, shame, desire, satisfaction, achievement - but whatever it is, it will change you.
With a good dom, you will never be the same again.
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^^ exactly this... and with a good submissive, a dom will never be the same either, he will be changed by her too..
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It is not what you say or do but the way you say or do it
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29 Nov 11, 12:26 PM StellaMaris UK, 13 mths

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etty_face wrote:
Spot on.
AshUK wrote:
I think the ' awful things a dom ( good or otherwise ) will make you do ' will vary from relationship to relationship.
In my opinion, the one thing that a good dom will do is change you.
One day you will look in the mirror and see someone who has done things for him that you never thought you were capable of. Who has experienced things you never imagined, until he made you experience them.
And when that change comes, it may bring with it conflicting emotions - pride, shame, desire, satisfaction, achievement - but whatever it is, it will change you.
With a good dom, you will never be the same again.
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Couldn't agree more. I look in the mirror and sometimes wonder who the person staring back is. Some days I love her, some days I hate her. But at the end of the day I accept her the way she is and embrace her. I can do no other.
"The true test is not whether a man behaves like a gentleman, but whether he misbehaves like one." ~ Sydney Tremayne
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29 Nov 11, 2:42 PM insanity_sane1 UK(NG), 18 mths 

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I bloody hate it when you are right.
Though i did find it funny the other week when you congratulated SirVme on getting me to be so well behaved.
His trick is to deny me what i want, he's an evil sod and not even my Dom.
Denial is the most evil thing a dom can do
AshUK wrote:
I think the ' awful things a dom ( good or otherwise ) will make you do ' will vary from relationship to relationship.
In my opinion, the one thing that a good dom will do is change you.
One day you will look in the mirror and see someone who has done things for him that you never thought you were capable of. Who has experienced things you never imagined, until he made you experience them.
And when that change comes, it may bring with it conflicting emotions - pride, shame, desire, satisfaction, achievement - but whatever it is, it will change you.
With a good dom, you will never be the same again.
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"Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment." ~Buddha
Edited 29 Nov 11, 2:43 PM by insanity_sane1
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