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| 13 Dec 11, 12:41 AM angellover UK(CM), 3 yrs   |
The highest fences we have to climb, are those we have built within our mind | ||
| 13 Dec 11, 4:04 PM Lady_Susan UK, 5 yrs |
One way of bringing the slutty excitement of the unknown into it is by using a known and trusted 'broker' - someone you know, who knows (and whom you trust to safely assess) people you don't. The Dom/me then 'hands' the sub over to the broker to be loaned, so the sub has the frisson of knowing that this has not been all cosily arranged by persons already known. And if the broker is someone that the Dom/me knows but the sub doesn't, even better! When I want your opinion, I'll thrash it out of you. | ||
| 13 Dec 11, 8:06 PM mstrmike2008 UK(WA), 3 yrs |
its always been one of my fantasies to loan my sub out , to what extent that is would be discussed with my sub beforehand bearing in mind that i would have the final say , however as a good master this would have to benefit both of us who knows one day this will be come true ...lets hope so !! | ||
| 14 Dec 11, 10:48 AM black_rose30 UK(OX), 15 mths |
Yeah, get Him to come with you and stay at a distance if he wants you to feel the experience fully...
And I'm sure I don't need to say it but obviously make sure whoever is having fun with you is wearing a condom!! Xx | ||
| 14 Dec 11, 5:31 PM redcat 9 yrs |
might i suggest dogging as the ideal compromise.... uber slutty... total strangers... but contact with them can be as much or as little as your Owner decides at the time. From a little exhibitionism with the car windows shut to getting you out of the car and fucked on the bonnet.
Buy a copy of Beyond the Circle CAAN statement of principle. | ||
| 15 Dec 11, 11:56 AM luci1979 UK, 13 mths |
An interesting variation might be the card game, in which you're the prize. That way, Master can select a group of suitable candidates, but there's still a sense of the unknown. It's also a fairly civilised way for men to fight over you. | ||
| 15 Dec 11, 12:30 PM morgan_stern UK, 2 yrs |
I've done this with 949. I'm fortunate in having a dom friend I trust completely. We talk in front of her about what's going to be done and then she either 'reports' to him completely on her own - like O reporting to Sir Stephen - or else I just go and leave her to his tender mercies. Which he hasn't got any of  She knows that it's none of her business what's done to her by me or whoever I nominate and trusts me to organise things so that she is safe but is used sluttily and has to assume that what she is ordered to do by him has been agreed with me in advance. But she can not have that confirmed until afterwards of course - at the time she must just obey. In due course other doms and dommes will be introduced. It's a great turn-on for me just glancing at my watch and knowing what's being done to her in my absence and knowing also that she is naked, vulnerable and being used and having to trust me absolutely.
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| 15 Dec 11, 3:31 PM Beatbot UK(KT), 2 yrs |
This sounds like a very good option to me, and one I hope a mistress may subject me to one day! | ||
| 27 Jan 12, 11:35 PM northnude UK(BD), 7 yrs |
I have taken advantage a number of times of a female sub being loaned out by a dom that I hadn't met. The sub was amazing and we met up in a hotel and had a fantastic time. The sub phoned her master each time, part way through the session and confirmed all was ok. She had very, very wide limits and clearly enjoyed this opportunity to be made available to visiting doms, with the security of her own dom being in contact and aware of her safety. I would gladly repeat this in the future. northnude |
