| 23 Nov 11, 6:54 PM inappropriate  UK(CF), 3 yrs |
Thanks guys - it's much appreciated. To be honest, I have low expectations of the boyfriend. She was so excited about me meeting him when they got together, and I made four trips to see her (to meet him!) before he showed up. Then he was hungover and barely spoke to me. They've been together 18 months and I've only ever met him twice. But for all of that, she's a fairly crap girlfriend sometimes too. I love her to pieces, but she's disorganised and scatty. To @LondonShyGirl - yes, I'm not going to criticise him to her - despite him being inconsiderate most of the time, they fit together well; when he's not being a dick, he makes her very happy(!), and I'm pretty sure they're going to be together for the duration.
It's her friends that I feel most irritated by - she has a group of about 10 close friends who hang out together all of the time, all of whom live within a square mile of her | |
| 23 Nov 11, 7:00 PM TheSilverFox UK(GU), 2 yrs     |
The only slight excuse is that if nothing has ever happened in theit world to shatter the illusion that nothing bad ever happens, it can sometimes be difficult for people to comprehend the magnitude of impact something has on others. I bet to some, it will just be tests at a hospital.. What they don't realise is the potential impact and worry that goes with those tests... "Shivers"... Loads of memories.. Let's all play nicely people.. Just remember.. This is meant to be fun! | |
| 23 Nov 11, 7:01 PM Nomad_72 17 mths |
Maybe so, but fingers in ears and La La La won't make it go away. At least she's got you, and she knows it. | |
| 23 Nov 11, 7:01 PM GazUK1963 UK(B), 6 yrs |
Firmly planted in his nuts, before saying good by, good riddance!
Everyone who lives dies, but not everyone who dies has truly lived. | |
| 23 Nov 11, 7:04 PM Dark_Cherry UK(B), 2 yrs     |
What a cunt. Can I go deal with him please? Big hugs darlin x Using milkshake to bring all the boys to my yard since 1972 | |
| 23 Nov 11, 7:07 PM inappropriate UK(CF), 3 yrs |
You rock my world xxx | |
| 23 Nov 11, 7:18 PM TheSilverFox UK(GU), 2 yrs |
Lol.... Well I think that neatly summarises matters there!! Anybody got anything to add?? (you are great!! Lol) Let's all play nicely people.. Just remember.. This is meant to be fun! | |
| 23 Nov 11, 7:28 PM Dollface UK, 6 yrs |
This. You're a cracking friend; unfortunately not everyone's so lucky. xxx
"The less said about life's sores, the better." | |
| 23 Nov 11, 7:31 PM MisstressvsSolicedog UK(NN), 17 mths |
what do you think is the reason 'the boy'friend' couldn't handle your friend's problem, has their been death in his family recently or such fear of loseing the girl he cannot handle any thought of her passing away, so by being there for her it's an acceptance of her illness,, i cannot condone his behaviour but his lack of actions made me wonder, Please excuse crap spelling cause i,m rubbish | |
| 23 Nov 11, 7:32 PM MisstressvsSolicedog UK(NN), 17 mths |
yes,, very true an all Please excuse crap spelling cause i,m rubbish |
