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| Tue 22 Nov 11, 2:45 AM lord63aramise 3 yrs  |
Watched a clip on xhamster porn site,(dirty head(the bad wife)german punishment shaving)...type in to search ..and watch. My question, would you as a dom-domme do this to your sub?. Now i have done a little bit of research into the haircutting of subjects in the past,second world war, the middle ages-etc etc, it transpires that having your hair cut off(in the middle ages,for a woman, your hair was considered as part of your beauty) was a most terrible thing to happen. My next question is, in the realms of d/s would this be a good punishment,or would it be a step to far. The considerations that come to my mind are, the mental state of the sub being subjected to this,the practical elements, as the sub would have to wear a wig- or could that be a form of punishment. For me as a dom ,it a very hard limit.?!? What do you think. ( Please be aware my english grammer is appalling, i do have problems in writing correct english.) | |
| 22 Nov 11, 5:05 AM lush_london UK(WC), 6 yrs  |
I have seen two hair cutting scenes in clubs and both were hot! One female Domme and male sub and the other male Dom and female sub. It isn't something that I'd want to happen to me, as anything that affects my working life is a limit, but YKIOK etc. | |
| 22 Nov 11, 5:14 AM Belasarius UK(M), 8 yrs      |
Her hair is very important to me. I love it long and it is staying that way. But if I found a volunteer, I'd do it in an instant. Hot, hot, hot! My goal - to save women from nature (Dior) | |
| 22 Nov 11, 6:13 AM Wickedauntee UK(SW), 18 mths |
A female friend who is a Domme, delights in shaving off eyebrows, as a finale to breaking submission. S he believes it ends a females ressistance and is used almost as in breaking a foal, she also enjoys removing mens hair, looking for moustached men. For Me seems way to serious an infraction on a mindset, as I replied this does not work for me, a serious sub/slave, should not need breaking, unless this is part of the agreement when submission is given. I desire the free will of giving. Using my mind to find interesting punishments, as opposed to such dire methods, keeps me mentally fresh. You want me to do what with that???. How about I just do this, and twist it that way???? feels good does it, niceeeeeeeeeeeeee. | |
| 22 Nov 11, 7:37 AM Earl_of_Lynchmere UK(GU), 5 yrs |
For me, hair is a huge turn-on, so I could never do something like this to my sub (who has the silkiest, softest hair). It would be like an amputation or permanent scarring. Having said that, women undergoing cancer treatment and wearing head-dresses or turbans are no less attractive for it. In the end it's between you and your partner. As someone else said, YKIOK. | |
| 22 Nov 11, 7:56 AM NeitiE UK(M), 2 yrs |
The whole idea of someone cutting away my hair (now waist/tailbone length) is just No, No Fucking Way. Yet I can see how it can work, and how it could be very hot. It'd certainly upset me deeply - and make me deeply submissive. Hair can be so personal, and for someone to cut it off for you... *shudders* Scary. Just scary in a deeply upsetting way.
I'd say cutting my hair is a hard limit for me. I've been growing it since 2004 when a vanilla bf said he liked girls with long hair... I'd be more than happy to be told not to cut it (I sort of was in the past) - I still cut the split ends for maintenance, to allow the hair grow healthier.
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| 22 Nov 11, 12:26 PM Kinkytalk UK(PR), 4 yrs |
Just had a haircut in my local 'vanilla' barbers. The lady who I prefer to cut my hair got me going when she delicately shaved the back of my neck. Other hairs on my body stood erect, wonderful. Talk to me on the phone and see our friendship develop . | |
| 22 Nov 11, 1:09 PM tanken UK(NR), 2 yrs |
I think having all their hair shaved off would turn many submissive women into very angry dommes  Happiness is a warm bum | |
| 22 Nov 11, 1:13 PM Shypeachybottom UK, 20 mths |
very true... it would shed new light on the expression "bratty / feisty sub" !
"hell hath no fury as a woman shorn" There's a somebody I'm longing to see, I hope that he turns out to be, someone to watch over me | |
| 22 Nov 11, 2:42 PM Caelum UK(HP), 7 yrs |
To me there is a simple answer - is it within the scope of what is acceptable for the sub? OK, that's a question rather than an answer but you get the point, I hope. | |
| 26 Nov 11, 1:55 AM lord63aramise 3 yrs |
That is more scary than having ones nuts cut off .Maybe we should let this on go.Thanks you......... ,never thought of that!!! |
