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A scream into the ether (25)

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19 Nov 11, 11:28 AM
Grownup_Frankie
UK, 4 yrs

You are loving and sensitive. I bet you your bottom dollar you wont be able to change those things about yourself - like the monster guarding the mountain pass, that throws down any warrior who challenges it, the answer is to embrace the monster instead of fight it, then it will let you pass. (Abrieiviated from an old Hungarian fable).

Embrace the monster. Hug your niceness.

19 Nov 11, 11:29 AM
Grownup_Frankie
UK, 4 yrs

Corwin wrote:

Grownup_Frankie wrote:

Corwin wrote:
I think I would be happier to embrace my character if I could see the achievements that it has brought me.

The benefits of being who you are: Well...lets put it this way, the last time I heard your name in any context it went something like this - "I saw Corwin as I was leaving. I didn't know he was single again. I've always liked him for some reason. I should have asked him to play."

So, you can't be that 'bad' at being nice if people just like you 'for some reason'.

Perhaps that's where I need to evolve - to see that comments like those are the achievements of my character, that people remember me/ think of me with a degree of fondness or like me, enjoy my company.

Doh, stupid!

19 Nov 11, 11:49 AM
MisstressvsSolicedog
UK(NN), 17 mths

Corwin wrote:

misstressvsdog wrote:
Would it help if i said,

your a complete git who never really say's what's on his mind,,

because you have twisted the word 'nice' into a poison of your own making,

it is slowly screwing you up emotionaly to,

and that, at some point, the 'real you' will emerge and say exactly what you think,,

then all your friends will drop you ! because you feel honesty is something that they cannot handle

yet at the end of the day you needed to be needed,,

and being 'nice' was the way to retain friend's and yet slowly kill the person inside that is really you,

just a thought,,

er !

if you ever need to send a insulting nasty memo to me ,, i will only admire you for it,

Nail hit firmly on the head there mate.

A huge amount of it is about needing to be needed and wanting to be wanted.

And I can't do insulting memos, I'm too nice

Well i like that,, yer can't do an insulting memo,,

THAT AIN'T 'NICE IS' IT !!!

i work at getting insulting memos me,,

Please excuse crap spelling cause i,m rubbish

19 Nov 11, 11:57 AM
MisstressvsSolicedog
UK(NN), 17 mths

i think that a small change of outlook help's

in sofar of being wanted you have chosen being nice,,

your alone,,

if mayhap you chose a attitude,,

'i am so going to eat you-you will love it',,

may wrought different result's,

you don't need to change much because the core of what you want will still be there,

just alter the outward face of it,

like changing the shop front a repaint

Please excuse crap spelling cause i,m rubbish

21 Nov 11, 10:57 AM
Degenerate

UK(M), 5 yrs

I've not read your replies and the ensuing discussion, but before I forget, I wanted to say/ ask this.

Have you ever 'played' with emotional masochism in your BDSM? Has to be done carefully, but can be safer.

Aside from that - it's ok to be friends with exs. For me it's certainly an ideal Yes sometimes it hurts for ages.

De x

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