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| Toots |
on Thu 17 Nov 11, 8:54 PM to the Daddy_Dom_Dynamic group.
What are the differences between being just a "plain old" Dominant and being a Daddy???
Not going to put any of my thoughts here just yet so as not to prejudice conversation.....
| 17 Nov 11, 9:24 PM foxgirl UK(LN), 22 mths |
How you feel about it. I want to make some broad sweeping statements but they're mostly not true. Dominants and Daddies do very similar things - discipline, make rules, protect, guide, play, love - with a different name on it. The only difference is the one you choose to make. give me life, give me pain, give me myself again. | |
| 18 Nov 11, 6:22 PM tangendentalism UK(RG), 17 mths |
I just posted this (not originally written by me) on my blog recently. Daddy Dom
It, along with a bit of elaboration in the comments, pretty much covers it for me. Things are just easier (simpler?) for us like this. I don't have to try to be all obedient and accepting when I don't feel like it and daddy doesn't have to try to be all distant and mean (not that either of those are meant to describe other people's relationships; just how the terms Dom and sub made us feel). We can just be us. I think we also both feel a lot more playful with a d/lg dynamic as well.
In the end, nothing you do matters. All that matters is what you do. | |
| 22 Nov 11, 1:13 AM AB_Martine UK(HA), 7 mths   |
Well that seems to hit the wooden peg into the right hole. Now I know the difference. If you like to play then you love me. If you like to play then you love me. | |
| 24 Nov 11, 1:16 PM Daddysaysno UK(SE), 2 yrs |
Yes well put Foxgirl and Tangendentalism. I am not mean, thats not part of the D/lg relationship. Its playful, affectionate; you care for each other. Edited 24 Nov 11, 6:35 PM by Daddysaysno | |
| 7 Dec 11, 8:18 PM Daddysaysno UK(SE), 2 yrs |
Another thing to add. It brings out a paternalistic side. I like caring for my little girl, soothing her if she's upset, helping her learn and grow. | |
| 7 Dec 11, 11:43 PM flowerchild78 UK(CF), 2 yrs |
Hi i'm new to the blog thing so hope it's the same as the board discussions and ok etiquette to just add random replies... I think there can be a big overlap between the two roles but the first thoughts that come to mind... Daddy builds you up instead of putting you down, will jump in the puddles with you and think it's funny, ocasionally let you get away with "it wasn't me, teddy did it", be far more playful and generally loving, will be thinking of your best interests or combined best interests and not just of himself or your service to him, will give as much as he takes, will indulge and enjoy the whims of his lg and allow her to grow. I'm sure that's a generalisation and there are some doms who have these qualitites but we can only each write from our own experience. | |
| 9 Dec 11, 12:36 PM Jon19106 UK(SE), 12 mths |
I think it is different for everyone. But for me it is about actually caring about your lg and helping her to reach her full potential in life. That's not to say Doms that are not into Daddy/lg relationships don't care for their subs I am sure some do. But to me the relationship is built around care and love more in the Daddy/lg type relationship.
Well that's my penny s worth  | |
| 19 Jan 12, 5:21 PM Paul5156 UK(M), 3 yrs |
It's just like being a Dom except you spoil her rotten and let her get away with murder | |
| 19 Jan 12, 6:20 PM Toots UK(S), 7 yrs |
Lol, whilst trying to give the impression of not doing so??
This is an interesting world I find myself in — an interesting hole I find myself in — fits me rather neatly, doesn't it? In fact it fits me staggeringly well, must have been made to have me in it!! | |
| 19 Jan 12, 7:19 PM Shypeachybottom UK, 20 mths |
Lovely definition There's a somebody I'm longing to see, I hope that he turns out to be, someone to watch over me |
