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| 9 Nov 11, 11:39 AM MsTrixzenaz 8 mths £  |
MsValentine. We obviously think along the same lines with regard to chastity and ownership of a slave's sexual release. There was a time when I used to keep slavebitch locked in chastity but now I recognise that I trust it enough not to have to rely on such methods. | |||
| 10 Nov 11, 11:38 AM DrTaps AQ, 10 yrs  |
Condoms with local anaesthetic inside them, either off the shelf (Endurance, Performa etc.) or self created.... | |||
| 10 Nov 11, 12:34 PM Lady_Em UK, 2 yrs |
Obviously every one is different. I admire the ladies who keep their subs in chastity long term - I just can't do it because I do like sex! My subs reaction to being in chastity is to be attentive, loving and obedient initially. Then he becomes stroppy and less interested in sex. It is at that stage he will be of more use to me and the hair trigger response has gone!
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| 10 Nov 11, 8:36 PM Drakino UK, 21 mths |
This. I mean, I love putting my boy in chastity, partly because I am possessive over his cock, partly because I want to make challenges, and partly because I am just a little bit sadistic
“When Rabbit said, 'Honey or condensed milk with your bread?' he was so excited that he said, 'Both,' and then, so as not to seem greedy, he added, 'But don't bother about the bread, please.'” | |||
| 10 Nov 11, 10:25 PM Ms_Valentine UK, 9 yrs |
It is the absolute flexibility of sexual control which make sit so suitable to many D/s situations. One can use devices or not. One can require honour chastity. Chastity can be alternated with 'forced' orgasms, ruined orgasms, teasing and denial or any combination of them. I am sure there are things I haven't thought of which can be added to that basic set. One can have PIV sex because even if you like devices, all you have to do is take it off when you want sex. In fact, chastity and sexual control can be used by any red blooded 'cock loving' dominant women who want to have a fully sexual relationship with a submissive male. Playing with chastity does not stop anything unless the woman herself wants it to be stopped. It is her choice. If she likes vaginal sex, she can have it and many of us certainly do want that. It is not unnatural to want a good fuck, no matter what the weird femdom orthodoxy would have us believe about how dominant women should interact with their sub. You know the stuff...no sex but oral, cuckold him with a 'real' man and never have his cock inside you and always strap a bit of plastic to your hips and fuck him saying you are taking your pleasure with him. Mmmmm...I never recognised myself in all that stuff but chastity and sexual control are still compatible with all the good stuff I do enjoy. Mistress of @paulss My PD blog at http://mistress-keene.blogspot.com/ http://twitter.com/#!/Mistress_Keene | |||
| 11 Nov 11, 7:44 PM chartreuse UK(BA), 6 yrs  |
To see the male struggle with his aroused manhood, knowing he is unable to do anything about it without permission or release, to tease and arouse, knowing that you (the female, the object of his desire) can keep him simmering nicely, until such time as you deem it suitable to set the "beast" free to use for your (the female's) pleasure and his relief. *Also his gratitude for having been set-free and his fear of having to do it again, knowing that he is going to suffer. @The_Coven / @The_Problem_Page, you might give the advice that someone needs. / I want the "Moon on a stick and the Stars suspended from bunting". / So many haystacks, so few needles! / Conserve conversation and converse about conservation! Edited 11 Nov 11, 7:54 PM by chartreuse | |||
| 11 Nov 11, 9:07 PM nepthys UK, 4 yrs |
yes! Yes! YES! Absolutely and precisely that!
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| 11 Nov 11, 10:25 PM Ms_Valentine UK, 9 yrs |
Yes indeed, very true. Well, I wouldn't call it the 'beast' but I agree with the sentiments. Mistress of @paulss My PD blog at http://mistress-keene.blogspot.com/ http://twitter.com/#!/Mistress_Keene | |||
| 17 Nov 11, 3:45 PM The_Moog UK(OL), 6 yrs |
Condoms with local anaesthetic inside them, either off the shelf (Endurance, Performa etc.) or self created....
[/quote] or turn them insideout no need to wake anybody Edited 17 Nov 11, 4:07 PM by The_Moog | |||
| 18 Nov 11, 4:37 PM hagans_run UK, 4 yrs |
To me, the appeal of chastity is about giving up control and handing over power to your Mistress to use as she pleases. If it was just about wanting to stop wanking then I could just lock myself in a CB. The thrill is in not having control of that part of my body that has an affect on most of my thoughts, to know that someone else determines if, how and when I get to be aroused or even come. The delicious mind fuck of being let out and led to believe that this time you may be allowed relief, only to be teased to the edge and then locked up again with just a "not this time darling" comment and a wicked smile from her. And at the same time giving her every orgasm she desires. Funny that she seems to want more just because I am locked up. |
The problem is, I just love the actual penis-in-vagina sex too much, and because we're long distance at the moment, I want the sex part even more. I also love making him come too much for the denial aspect of chastity to hold my interest for very long...