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| Brindle |
on Sun 6 Nov 11, 2:23 PM to Brindle's blog.
don't have sex, don't sleep together, and do not, any longer, stay up late and watch Pingu.
He's grown out of that.
Sadly!
However. Just to get some things straight.
He adopted me when he was 10, a year after his mother died in a terrible bike crash.
I never asked for him, we met completely randomly, but I have tried to answer his questions, deal with his tantrums, help him out thro life. That's all.
I call him my step-son, as I have no other way to describe him, but in both our hearts he is my son, the son I will never have. He is now 17 and I am 43.
But we are also (despite the fact that we bicker like cat and dog) best mates.
So we have odd conversations now and then! So what?
I've talked him thro his first kiss, how to hold hands, the right way to put a condom on.... all the way through what DVD you should play on a first date and about how often he should wash his socks.... isn't that what a 'mother' is for? Or am I getting something wrong here?
I told him about what I asked on here (thought, you know, site with lots of blokes, who've been teenagers... could have some useful advice....) and he was actually really chuffed I'd gone to the bother for him!
So that may be strange to some people, but you know what? I'd rather that than him not saying owt.
He trusts me, to ask me, that I won't laugh at him (well, sometimes, I admit.... I do struggle...)
But thing is, even if I don't know the answer, at least know I'll go away and try and find out.
Oh and btw, he knows me, my life my family, my parents (all 3 of them), plus all the extended ones, and they love him to bits.
So shoot me, for asking a question, light-heartedly, in what I thought was an open environment, a 'community' which happens to have a lot of male members, who could possibly shed some light on a situation they may have experienced as fellow young men.
On behalf of a young man I love very much, am very proud of and was simply trying to reassure.
I am NOT a mother, I never have been, and I never asked for this, but he's here and I couldn't be happier he is in my life.
It just makes life odd at times 
| 6 Nov 11, 2:31 PM LouiseM UK, 8 yrs |
Life needs more people like you.... X Going to school does not make a person educated, any more than going to a garage makes a person a car | ||
| 6 Nov 11, 2:49 PM dryad_x UK(YO), 7 mths |
I saw your other blogs, and I just think your relationship sounds healthy. I've had a similarly open relationship with my dad since I was a teenager. I love that we can joke together, and with him being a doctor, I've come to him with a whole variety of dodgy questions over the years, eg. 'Dad, does anal sex make you incontinent?'. In case it's not obvious, I'll state that our relationship is not inappropriate in any way, he's never abused me ect. I don't know if you're getting stick off well meaning types who have got the wrong impression, but it's probably just as likely someone who gets off on giving people a hard time. I don't think you should worry about it too much. | ||
| 6 Nov 11, 2:55 PM Brindle UK(HD), 8 yrs |
Oh you don't wanna know about the questions regarding anal sex I've had with my dad, lol, they have a douche attactchment in the shower here.... !
You sound very lucky you can talk to your dad like I can do to mine Thank-you both for your positive comments ---------§-�---------- | ||
| 6 Nov 11, 3:42 PM Xafar UK(S), 12 yrs £    |
i missed the blog you mentioned when you posted it and only saw it days later... otherwise i would have posted into it... it made me smile and i will confess laugh a little as well however mostly it made me remember how i had no one i could ask that sort of question of... please carry on doing what the two of you obviously do very well and if anyone here gives you grief about it... fuck em... Mac
"Me Man Whore... You Jane..." | ||
| 6 Nov 11, 3:51 PM anne_marie  UK(SE), 5 yrs |
just for the record that isn't what I said, but well done on metioning the dead mother (gets the sympathy vote), mentioning all the good work you have done (what a good person you are) and making out that I said something was unnatural about your relationship. (making me the bad guy) What I DID say was I was not sure a BDSM sex site is the place for a "mother" to ask questions about her "kid" and gave a link to a "mum-type-site"..... and again it wasn't that you asked it was that you asked and asked and just to be sure asked again ... yeah fuck me. If the above post upsets you please contact xAdamx He WILL punish me. | ||
| 6 Nov 11, 5:38 PM dryad_x UK(YO), 7 mths |
Well, I had no idea who had said what to her; her blog doesn't mention any specifics. Maybe she wasn't talking about you- somebody else may have said something? | ||
| 6 Nov 11, 6:12 PM reservoir_bunny UK, 15 mths |
Is this really necessary?
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| 6 Nov 11, 6:54 PM Brindle UK(HD), 8 yrs |
At all? At any point? As far as I am concerned you and I had a personal conversation. In private. So yeah Fuck you ---------§-�---------- | ||
| 6 Nov 11, 7:28 PM anne_marie UK(SE), 5 yrs |
we did and then you wrote a blog .... If the above post upsets you please contact xAdamx He WILL punish me. |
