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| Sun 30 Oct 11, 10:13 PM Wildebeest UK(M), 8 yrs   |
What do you think is the most important thing a Dom or Domme needs to be a Dom or Domme? Or put another way, what is the one thing without which a Dom or Domme is unable to act as a Dom or Domme? Views from both sides of the D/s dynamic welcomed. | ||
| 30 Oct 11, 10:14 PM Souci_X UK(BA), 5 yrs |
dominance | ||
| 30 Oct 11, 10:16 PM MisstressvsSolicedog UK(NN), 17 mths |
not being submissive,,,,,, although,,, beat beat me make me beg !!! ok ! Please excuse crap spelling cause i,m rubbish | ||
| 30 Oct 11, 10:19 PM pleasureswitch UK(E), 6 yrs  |
An interest in Kinky Sex, BDSM or Pevery in general. And this is a serious answer, the number of peeps I've meet who are lookin for a shag a bit of company or a personality, truley astounds me. Honestly the first rule of knittin club is you like knittin ! "Yeah I like Kinky stuff,dirty dark pervy stuff,weird sex....
An' Yerself ?" | ||
| 30 Oct 11, 10:21 PM ToakReon  UK(RH), 12 yrs |
Leather waistcoat ......... sorry, but it had to be said. *UPDATE* Model(s) for "how to" bondage photographs (and other bondage photographs) have now been found. Thank you to all who showed interest. | ||
| 30 Oct 11, 10:22 PM Souci_X UK(BA), 5 yrs |
I would argue you can be dominant and in a D/s relationship while not being interested in kinky sex BDSM or pervery | ||
| 30 Oct 11, 10:24 PM ClassAct2005 UK(N), 7 yrs |
The right genes. They need to be made like this. They need to feel at age 5 this within them and never waver if they are going to match my dyed in the wool inherent submissiveness. They also need to dominate. No good feeling dom inside but never dominating. That's worse than useless. | ||
| 30 Oct 11, 10:31 PM Goddess_Asphyxia UK, 3 yrs |
Complete confidence in their ability to be in control, without question. 'Taste the whip, in love, not given lightly......taste the whip, now plead for Me !' | ||
| 30 Oct 11, 10:35 PM ignited_thoughts UK(BR), 6 yrs |
I will make it two most important things (because I can | ||
| 30 Oct 11, 10:36 PM twilightsilence UK(ME), 16 mths |
I think (in my humble opinion) that it is the ability to get into the head of another person and make them *want* to submit... I'm nowhere near as innocent as I look | ||
| 30 Oct 11, 10:39 PM pleasureswitch UK(E), 6 yrs |
So a D/s relationship isn't inherently kinky ? It has a special name, only really used on Kinky, BDSM type site for instance. Because if it wasn't wouldn't that just be abuse ? (no really the point of my post, but happpy to debate)
"Yeah I like Kinky stuff,dirty dark pervy stuff,weird sex....
An' Yerself ?" |
) : Confidence and humility...
