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| 28 Oct 11, 6:12 PM scotchmystery 15 mths |
Yep. This has nothing to do with D/S although Souci_X is possibly right he was drunk and had false courage, most likely is he is an alpha male. We don't ask, we take, we also don't give a fuck what people think. Once you begin on this path, you start to discover that practically everyone is capable of understanding the weird things that you do. In fact, it makes you interesting and women love it. Self-expression is the dominant necessity of human nature | |
| 28 Oct 11, 6:32 PM ClassAct2005 UK(N), 7 yrs  |
I think it's unusual but sometimes you can sense that someone is dominant (or submissive). It doesn't sound as if you objected either. | |
| 28 Oct 11, 6:36 PM Visualize UK(CV), 5 yrs  |
I think it is very forward behaviour, but if you have known each other for a long time....and anyway, it sounds really hot | |
| 28 Oct 11, 7:06 PM Crystal_Eyes UK, 5 yrs   |
Some guys are just naturally dominant. The hair-wrapped fisted kiss is not *that* unusual - it's not like he back-handed you & choked you on his cock.
(All in good time... ------------------------------------------ | |
| 28 Oct 11, 7:15 PM ConsciousnessJunkie UK(N), 5 yrs |
Yeah, don't leave us in suspense! We neeeeeeeed to know! | |
| 29 Oct 11, 1:53 PM dellusion UK, 6 yrs |
Fabulous replies, thank you all Sorry to disapoint, but nothing happened i am afraid....i just looked stunned and he went home shortly afterwards However, as we play pool for the same team, there is always next Thursday.... although i have a date then, so maybe the Thursday after ;o) He is definitely an alpha male but i don't know if it goes further and i am pretty sure no-one knows about me. Quite the opposite, some think i am a Dominatrix! LOL How funny is that? :o) | |
| 29 Oct 11, 3:55 PM scotchmystery 15 mths |
Well being alpha is a good start in the dominance dept, whether he wants you to crawl across a floor on your hands knees remains to be seen. It's also natural a woman would be attracted to an Alpha, my girl thought I was a 'conceited arse' (her words) and ignored me so I took her hand and dragged her away from a group of people she was talking to in mid sentence, she put up no resistance. Self-expression is the dominant necessity of human nature | |
| 29 Oct 11, 6:12 PM etty_face UK(S), 4 yrs |
An arrogant, cocky and self assured move... not necessarily Dominant but definitely male!  | |
| 29 Oct 11, 9:36 PM ToakReon  UK(RH), 12 yrs |
He might be dominant, but bear in mind he could also just be a dick-head. *UPDATE* Model(s) for "how to" bondage photographs (and other bondage photographs) have now been found. Thank you to all who showed interest. | |
| 29 Oct 11, 9:41 PM ClassAct2005 UK(N), 7 yrs |
He probably just sensed he wouldn't be repelled. Sometimes just how someone behaves towards you you can guess if they are sub or dom, although it's a bit of risk. And then there are some men who try things on with women all the time on the basis that if 1 in 100 of their attempts succeed they will regularly get what they're after. |
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