| dementia_von_gurth |
not literally, not my thing, but i'm not here to judge, god will do that.
but kink without all the fuss, the deep meaning, the "lifestyle", the analysis, the rules, the endless rules, its all so complicated ...
anyway ... IC seems to be a bit ... dull. i do like it here, its free and there are probably some very nice, intelligent people here somewhere, but the boards are boring and the blogs don't inspire me ....
so .. i have been wondering if its all a bit too bdsm, especially for those just curious .... if i hadn't already done my "journey" i can't say that i would find inspiration here ...
so .. just curious if there are any newbs out there in IC limbo who feel a bit hesitant in joining in ... there just seems to be a lack of fresh meat contributing .....
have your say .. don't be shy ...
Edited Wed 26 Oct 11, 12:49 AM by dementia_von_gurth
| 26 Oct 11, 7:45 AM SirOpenSource UK(E), 6 yrs |
If I was just joining IC I think I would be quite put off by being described as 'Fresh Meat', that being a little derogatory. I'm sure there are other more welcoming expressions. SOS The Titter_Ye_Not group - for when you don't feel too serious. |