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Proposal of marriage............... (30)

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30 Oct 11, 4:55 PM
Miss_Rose
UK(SO), 6 yrs

My boy asked me on bended knee, and I accepted. We are in a loving nilla and D/s relationship, did he get to choose the ring nope, has he had anything to do with organising our wedding, nope. Mind you Im a bit of a control freak, so even if there was no D/s he still wouldnt get to choose anything

CSB is not an excuse for being a very naughty boy

27 Nov 11, 12:25 PM
BigOldHector
UK(DE), 10 yrs

Miss_OL wrote:

chris_willow wrote:
Surely the Dom(me) should just tell the sub where and when to turn up and what to wear.

Kind of the way I'd always envisaged it. I'd say, "By the way, we're getting married on ..." etc.

Although, I accept in reality, we all like to be asked.

And in response to the OP, no I wouldn't be 'too Dommely' to get down on one knee, but it would seem strange, and I doubt I'd do it that way. I'd be happy to ask though, although him begging me would be nicer.

Of course there is a "best of both worlds" solution. Instead of asking directly, the domme can always simply grant permission from on high for her slave/lover to beg to fulfil her wishes.

I AM THE GOD OF HELL-FIRE!.....but its my lunch break right now

27 Nov 11, 12:33 PM
Mistress_Rosanna
PH, 6 yrs

We had a boring normal proposal it was in a five star hotel in Abu Dhabi the ring was floating in a bowl of our favorite shared cocktails which was escorted to the table by the house band......I went down on one knee Mistress said yes which was a relief nothing like a little public play...................happy days and we marry in February 2012

Rosannas Pet

27 Nov 11, 1:35 PM
Miss_OL
UK(YO), 6 yrs

BigOldHector wrote:

Miss_OL wrote:

chris_willow wrote:
Surely the Dom(me) should just tell the sub where and when to turn up and what to wear.

Kind of the way I'd always envisaged it. I'd say, "By the way, we're getting married on ..." etc.

Although, I accept in reality, we all like to be asked.

Of course there is a "best of both worlds" solution. Instead of asking directly, the domme can always simply grant permission from on high for her slave/lover to beg to fulfil her wishes.

Yes, the "you have permission to beg me to marry you" approach certainly appeals.

Put me on a pedestal, but be there to catch me if I fall.

27 Nov 11, 1:53 PM
moonstruck
UK(BN), 6 yrs

RED! RED!!

...someone had to say it.

27 Nov 11, 1:55 PM
Long_way_home
UK(CF), 19 mths

MsTrixzenaz wrote:
To answer your question, there were several reasons for me marrying 'it' ONE: It certainly does re-enforce my hold over it. TWO: It makes it easier for both of us to remain in each others respective countries and not be tied down to the 6 month visa period.

........and you love each other to death!

Please tell me it's true.

Yeah, yeah, I know it's not necessarily how you hang, and it's none of my business, and YKIOK etc etc etc. I just live in this glorious fantasy land where dom(me)s and subs love each other, and partners meet needs no other human being could easily meet.

Even though it's out of role, I think you do really love each other in a warm fluffy way ('cept all kinky and BDSM like).

Fair enough. Leave me alone to my fantasy.

27 Nov 11, 2:25 PM
misunderstoodslave
UK(OL), 2 yrs

Oh, FFS, yet another reminder that it's never been quite right and I ought to have realised.

I told my husband we were getting married, and named the month. He said "do we have to?" I said "yes." Then went off and planned the wedding, pausing only to tell him where to stand and what to wear on the day.

Which would be fine, I guess, were I domme. But as I am the submissivest sub it's possible to imagine, I think it's a pointer to the fact that it was never going to work out. It just took 21 long years thereafter for the truth to dawn on us both.

Fortunately it won't apply again as I wouldn't re-marry for all the tea in China.

27 Nov 11, 2:45 PM
Ms_Rika
US, 7 mths

Ms_Valentine wrote:

Ah, thanks, that makes good practical sense then.

No it doesn't...sorry. If there were no feelings, there'd be no reason to give this man legal rights to things that are yours and legal rights to sue you if you see other men. It does not make sense to restrict yourself with the bonds of marriage (which legally go both ways). Remember, the bonds of a power exchange are not legally binding...the laws of marriage are.

There is absolutely a deep emotional commitment between MsTrixzenaz and "it" or they wouldn't be dealing with the multi-country relationship in the first place! You mean to tell me MsTrixzenaz couldn't find another suitable sub more locally?...I mean, if another 'it' could do?

I call bluff here. I think she's far more committed to this thing than she lets on!

That said,I wish them the best of luck...I now pronounce them 'It' and Mrs. 'It'!

JMHO.

- Rika

27 Nov 11, 9:21 PM
Miss_OL
UK(YO), 6 yrs

Ms_Rika wrote:

I call bluff here. I think she's far more committed to this thing than she lets on!

That said,I wish them the best of luck...I now pronounce them 'It' and Mrs. 'It'!

JMHO.

Or, maybe 'this thing' could be a future sub for her, to go alongside 'it'. (Sorry couldn't resist).

Put me on a pedestal, but be there to catch me if I fall.

27 Nov 11, 10:47 PM
tanken
UK(NR), 2 yrs

Miss_OL wrote:

Ms_Rika wrote:

I call bluff here. I think she's far more committed to this thing than she lets on!

That said,I wish them the best of luck...I now pronounce them 'It' and Mrs. 'It'!

JMHO.

Or, maybe 'this thing' could be a future sub for her, to go alongside 'it'. (Sorry couldn't resist).

Or 'this thing' formerly known as 'it'

Happiness is a warm bum