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| Wed 19 Oct 11, 3:10 PM Lady_Eleanor 8 mths £ |
Or should (is?) there another name for the process of a dom winding up a sub ? 'Bratting' doesn't seem right, it's connected with child-like behaviour, and of course, as we all know, a dom would never exhibit anything like that. Lady Eleanor | ||
| 19 Oct 11, 3:11 PM Ms_Valentine UK, 9 yrs  |
I would hope not but then I am no longer surprised about the kinds of thing people are proud of being in bdsm nowadays. A Fine Norfolk Domme. Mistress of @paulss My PD blog at http://mistress-keene.blogspot.com/ | ||
| 19 Oct 11, 3:27 PM Blair29 5 yrs |
Well what do you mean by winding up? Because their is winding up in a fun sense or winding up in a mindfuck sense or winding up in a "bitchy" nasty sense. | ||
| 19 Oct 11, 4:02 PM Daddy_SirHC UK(DA), 3 yrs  |
Wouldn't call this "bratting", it sounds more like some sort of mind fuck, and that I am all for, I love playing these sorts of games. The Dominant leads at the Submissives pace!! | ||
| 19 Oct 11, 4:20 PM pleasureswitch UK(E), 6 yrs |
This is Goading. (A Goad is a pointed stick that is used to poke animals to move them around.) So a series of threats over time, to take or deny some sort action to produce a reaction must therefore be Goading. As well as good fun, if in an evil mindset. "Yeah I like Kinky stuff,dirty dark pervy stuff,weird sex....
An' Yerself ?" | ||
| 19 Oct 11, 4:22 PM Blair29 5 yrs |
Yeah wouldnt say that was bratting either, more a mindfuck in a fun sort of way. Not sure id be brave enough to use the chocolate one though!
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| 19 Oct 11, 4:33 PM canupleaseme UK(S), 3 yrs |
I do this all the time lol and I guess thats why I call him daddy we certainly dont have a 'little' relationship but ~I have him wrapped round my finger when I want something 
pleeeease daddy :P and lots of foot stamping Kink friendly Beauty therapist all enquiries welcome | ||
| 20 Oct 11, 12:22 AM Donnachaidh FR, 6 yrs |
I'm not entirely sure that a little bit of being a brat isn't in us all. After all, who hasn't "flounced out" of a situation in their past? I don't, however, believe that the odd bit of bratting equates to being a sub. I have known plenty of dominant people who have a tendency to "brat". Hell, the last girl I lived with did just that. And I seem to be getting into it again with another. Occasionally I have known people confuse topping with being a Dominant. They are, in my view, largely unrelated, but maybe that's a question for a different thread.
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| 20 Oct 11, 12:43 AM Elohims_jay UK(B), 7 yrs |
Ermm .... Ummm ... It would seem you have never seen Himself exhibit the bouncing around, clapping and Squeeeeeeeee'ing when the latest Marvel film is announced/released lol But yep .... I think I would agree with "goading" as a good term to use "You and you alone make me feel that I am alive. Other men it is said have seen angels, but I have seen thee and thou art enough." ~ George Moore | ||
| 20 Oct 11, 4:10 AM StUdZ1 UK(ME), 17 mths |
That's how I am when new albums come out by my fave artists. Oh, and when I know that my brat is in for a serious session hehehe. | ||
| 20 Oct 11, 4:16 AM SlutBoy2000 UK(AL), 7 mths |
Yes.
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