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| Tue 18 Oct 11, 10:21 PM Ms_Dalida UK, 16 mths  |
I would be very grateful for suggestions for useful reading on this matter. There seems to be a lot of literature out there, and ICer's recommendations would be most helpful. Suggestions for reading most welcome, as are your own experiences of mind control. Many thanks. (Edited to remove one sentence which seemed to prevent readers actually seeing the question I am asking). Edited Wed 19 Oct 11, 1:40 PM by Ms_Dalida | |
| 18 Oct 11, 10:25 PM MisstressvsSolicedog UK(NN), 17 mths |
depends fully on what you mean by broken,, because you can lead a person to place's bit by bit with their consent to a place where they will follow and do for you like a trusted dog,, but to understand to brake a mans mind is entirely different Please excuse crap spelling cause i,m rubbish | |
| 18 Oct 11, 10:58 PM Bubbles_2 UK(E), 6 yrs |
I think in my case with a certain person it was a process were whatever i did, i couldn't please her yet i was expected to do so and punished if i didn't.
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| 19 Oct 11, 1:17 AM Dreaming_Princess UK(G), 12 mths £  |
breaking someone is fine...but just make sure you intend to be there for him after hes broke... jessica | |
| 19 Oct 11, 2:06 AM Blair29 5 yrs |
Knowing how to break someone is fine and relatively easy if they have an emotional and submissive attachment to you. The hard part is dealing with what you may find when you get there and the rebuild process. Make sure you know every inch of this person before you even think about starting to break them mentally. No book will tell you how a person will react because each person reacts differently.
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| 19 Oct 11, 7:16 AM SirOpenSource UK(E), 6 yrs    |
It is surprising the number of people who wish to control the minds of others before they have learnt enough about their own. SOS The Titter_Ye_Not group - for when you don't feel too serious. | |
| 19 Oct 11, 8:24 AM othyim NL, 3 yrs |
That sentence, put this way, plus the fact that the OP has a grand total of 36 post, and only 2 of that adress another subject than this breaking thingie, screams red flags to me. "Class is the impartial, consistent display of emotional integrity." | |
| 19 Oct 11, 8:53 AM Hatari  UK(BN), 6 yrs |
In many years in the lifestyle I have never broken a sub. My job as Dom is to help the sub to grow in all respects. That growing includes dealing with low self esteem. I just do not understand some people's need to destroy a person. | |
| 19 Oct 11, 8:54 AM Ms_Dalida UK, 16 mths |
Unfortunately not a single response yet addresses the question asked. | |
| 19 Oct 11, 9:50 AM othyim NL, 3 yrs |
The thing is, you DO get answers. Lots of them, actually. As you did in the last few threads you started on this same subject. The answers you got may not be up your alley, but that is another thing entirely. The disturbing thing is, that you seem to be unable to listen and watch, learn from people who have another POV, who have a genuine concern on what you are trying to accomplish, and you never react to questions about YOUR responsibilities. IMnshO, for someone with the outspoken intention to break another human being, that would be a very disturbing quality indeed.
"Class is the impartial, consistent display of emotional integrity." Edited 19 Oct 11, 10:25 AM by othyim | |
| 19 Oct 11, 9:59 AM jackvalentine UK(BN), 2 yrs |
I second that approach. Power and control yes - and 'Mmmmm', but even the word 'breaking' has a negative connotation.
"the purpose of life is to live creatively, love and be kind" Anne Rice "Ah but it's being creative in how you do that thats fun. And sometimes you have to be quite firm" JV |
