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on Sat 15 Oct 11, 5:23 AM to Arceye's blog.
I've been a public kinkster for around fifteen years. A late developer. I've known during that time that there's a part of me that enjoys being kinky whether I want to be or not. Wearing things that are not removable without significant risk of injury.
This means I have lost one long standing friend- but who's fault was it? I have always known this guy to be utterly dependable but reactionary, old fashioned. He saw me in a supermarket, wearing my steel collar, and just walked off.
Another long term friend has said that my collar 'does me no favours' but he's still my friend- and I have other, kinky friends, I've known for some years. And my kinky friends are as dependable as my ex reactionary mate. In some ways, more so. They know themselves.
Today I went to a model engineering show with a friend, and while he makes kinky things, and has a slave, he has a business to run and I have perceived that he likes to keep his kinky side quiet for the sake of his business. So I wear ordinary clothes, instead of the leather and steel that is my choice.
But the weather was unusually warm and I removed my coat, revealing my steel bracelets- they do not unfasten- and the reaction was as I expected, nothing.... I think 2012 is going to be a kinky year, more confidence on my part that people accept unusualness much more. and a boo hah! to the very few that do not accept my appearance.
