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| 12 Oct 11, 6:26 PM Phrixus UK(ST), 5 yrs |
It's really not rocket science... ...unless you ejaculate really hard. I often loose all interest in kink when I orgasm, but with the right stimulus it will be back again in 10-15 minutes. I don't loose interest in cuddling though. Aren't I sweet? :P The solution is that the kink needs more of a stable anchor than just a sexual one. Tell me that this isn't YOU. | |
| 12 Oct 11, 7:50 PM chartreuse UK(BA), 6 yrs   |
It helps if the submissive is REALLY into his dominant... if he cherishes her, adores her and feels she is at the centre of his happiness he will do all he can to please her, regardless of whether he has just cum or not. If a submissive makes his dominant happy she will make him happy in return and... this is where I feel D/s is about the whole rather than being just about a part of the whole. It's not just the mechanics of the physical being but also the connection of the mental/emotional being. @The_Coven / @The_Problem_Page, you might give the advice that someone needs. / I want the "Moon on a stick and the Stars suspended from bunting". / So many haystacks, so few needles! / Conserve conversation and converse about conservation! | |
| 12 Oct 11, 8:01 PM Original_Rebel UK(CT), 10 yrs  |
That sums it up perfectly 
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| 12 Oct 11, 8:25 PM subbiebrummie UK(B), 12 mths |
ABSOLUTELY RIGHT-AGREE 100% | |
| 12 Oct 11, 8:52 PM Kitty_Fantastico UK(OX), 2 yrs |
I don't feel less Domme after orgasming...I just about never have only one....and after feel satisfied, content and very well looked after  give me a couple of minutes and I'm ready to play again.My bear just about never cums before me...until I'm completely satisfied...but he always gets to cum when we play . Afterwards we tend to just cuddle and chat and within 20 we may start again lol It feels intimate and reLaxed...the D/s side doesn't even feel like an issue or factor at that point. If I ask for something like a drink...then he'll go and get it....but I'm never sure if its an act of submission or just something a thoughtful man does for his gf. I don't understand wanting to lock up a man in chastity and never allowing him any pleasure. I love the buzz from making my bear cum....I love his sex drive...I find it incredibly masculine...and love that its all mine to make use of as I wish. I even love knowing how many times he plays when away from me (and have in the past controlled this...rather than denied)...to have a man with such a high sex drive is something I adore. | |
| 12 Oct 11, 9:00 PM Miss_OL UK(YO), 6 yrs |
Orgasms just make me feel good ... they don't affect my level of my Dominance either way. As to whether I've noticed a change in a sub afterwards, yes with someone purely in a play situation, but no when it's been with someone I'm in a relationship with. Put me on a pedestal, but be there to catch me if I fall. | |
| 13 Oct 11, 11:51 AM JohnMixta UK(NN), 4 yrs |
As a switch I can give my perspective from both sides. In both cases I do not lose interest after cumming if the relationship is good. I may not have the drive for more sex for a while but I definitely enjoy continuing the Dom/sub role and play. As some have said - it depends on the relationship and whether Dom/sub is just part of kinky sex or is a real emotional relationship. | |
| 13 Oct 11, 12:51 PM Natural_Born_Sub UK(PR), 3 yrs |
Supposedly semen is rich in testosterone, according to a study on the 7th day of abstinence, there is a clear peak of testosterone. | |
| 13 Oct 11, 3:36 PM Phrixus UK(ST), 5 yrs |
Wait a minute, do you have any idea what we're saying here? I mean maybe masturbation saves lives. Think of all those aggressive tendencies curbed by wanking. My God... I really think wanking must save lives. Tell me that this isn't YOU. | |
| 13 Oct 11, 3:36 PM Phrixus UK(ST), 5 yrs |
That is really lovely, honestly I do like it. Tell me that this isn't YOU. |
