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| 10 Oct 11, 8:39 PM goodghirl UK, 8 yrs  |
please don't do that with the kettle (not the safety police) | |
| 10 Oct 11, 8:42 PM MisstressvsSolicedog UK(NN), 17 mths |
i had an electric kettle that kept zapping me,, i thought it was just static til my friend shot across the room after touching it,,, lol,, no sense no feeling Please excuse crap spelling cause i,m rubbish | |
| 10 Oct 11, 8:53 PM pod333 UK(DD), 6 yrs |
The moral is...take one spanking for each dose of chocolate. Chocolate lasts longer, no feeling sick & a pink tingling bottom. What could be finer? Bollocks spoken like an real expert. | |
| 10 Oct 11, 8:57 PM pod333 UK(DD), 6 yrs |
Years ago a friend of mine reported getting small shocks from his father's garage door. Turned out some idiot had removed (or never connected) the earth wire to his house where the main feed came in to the meter & switchboard, and years later a new socked had crushed the live wire, shorting to 'earth' which then made the house live and so the shocks started. Not obvious inside (everything at same potential, maybe not the odd tap), but the metal garage door could light a 60W bulb, as I demonstrated, and easily killed someone. Go for a decent thrashing instead, much safer... Bollocks spoken like an real expert. Edited 10 Oct 11, 8:58 PM by pod333 | |
| 10 Oct 11, 9:00 PM ocimum_sanctum UK(EH), 2 yrs |
Can understand where you're coming from, albeit slightly different kinks. My own level of desire/need seems to be heavily tied to my mental state. When I'm more active, my interests in everything increase sharply: art, music, film, food, and very much kink/sex; the contrary is also true, when I'm not that interested in anything else I can't be bothered with sex/kink either.
At times, I'll have wee intervals throughout the day - perhaps 3 or 4 mins at the most - where the desire is so intense that it literally blocks out any other thoughts. Perhaps thankfully, I tend not to express what I want to do to others/have done to me at those times, as even I would class those thoughts as seriously fucked-up... although, for once I would love to actually act on them during one of those periods Bottom line is you'll have to decide what's right for you. While assessing me for OCD, a psychiatrist once asked me "does it disrupt your life enough that it is a problem". It was a very useful question: would you say your kink is at the point of disrupting your life such that it is a problem for you? Personally, I've found the interaction between BDSM and relationships to be the most difficult aspect to reconcile but that's another kettle of fish. As for getting a fix when you want it, if you find the answer please post it - I've still not figured that one out!
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| 11 Oct 11, 2:15 AM Londonista UK(E), 2 yrs  |
I would say slow it down a little, you don't want to get to 25 be burnt out, doing DVDA for kicks (see Orgasmo). I'm not really that bothered if I'm called a kill-joy by the IC Thought Police but you have to make sure you keep a grip on the reigns. Doesn't mean you can't explore the wild side and really push yourself to the limit, obviously! I know that kind of chaos you're craving. It's tempting to just throw yourself out there and lose yourself. And it is an addiction, chasing that high. Not necessarily a dangerous one but it can be if you let it. You talk about Doms in quite a generic way. And I bet after this post you've had hundreds of memos from hopefuls. 90% will be rubbish. Trust. But given the right kind of chemistry, and the right kind of partner, you can get that buzz you're after... And not get mortally wounded by some two-bit punk in the process. Bonus! If you're using burning yourself with the kettle steam as a coping mechanism to deal with 'every-day-non-kink-filled' life then I would have a deeper look in to why the lulls are *that* difficult at the moment. Good luck & etc xx
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