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| 14 Oct 11, 12:11 AM chrismanch  UK(M), 11 yrs  |
Nothing makes you "Gay". You are what you are. "Straight","Bisexual" and "Gay" are just crude labels that people use for convenience to describe sexuality on some kind of linear scale but human sexuality is much more complex than that. You are the complex human being you are, with your own desires and preferences, and these can change over time, or even from day to day or person to person. A man fucked up the arse once, or twice or every single time you have sex, by a man or a woman with a strap on, doesn't make you gay any more than being celibate would make you a Catholic Priest! A lot of men who identify as straight like getting anal stimulation. A lot of guys who identify as gay don't do anal sex.
Chris | ||
| 14 Oct 11, 12:17 AM submindset UK, 5 yrs  |
Something i fantasise about a lot.Even more right now as am locked in chastity and so it would be perfect, if bound and gagged also. Dreams. | ||
| 14 Oct 11, 1:00 PM Like_to_watch UK(NR), 5 yrs |
Good point!
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| 14 Oct 11, 1:03 PM chrismanch UK(M), 11 yrs |
God gave you a prostate for a reason. Chris | ||
| 14 Oct 11, 2:27 PM TheMistressLola UK(M), 11 mths £ |
Personally I love fucking a man with a strap-on! Whilst now that might be because I'm a Domme, I loved strap-on play before that too. Obviously it's a psychological thing rather than physical, but then again I have a great little bullet that sits nicely in a little pouch of the strap-on, so it's always fun for both! And as everyone before me seems to have said, just because you like anal doesn't mean your gay, there really isn't a correlation between the two. So just enjoy :D | ||
| 14 Oct 11, 2:52 PM Batiman UK(SO), 13 mths |
Like so many of us, Nichty. lol | ||
| 17 Oct 11, 6:26 PM boot_boy2 UK(M), 7 mths |
Really interesting thread, well I'm actually straight but the thought of anal/strap on play I guess does excite/intrigue me although I have never really tried it, I have experimented ever so slightly over the years though. The psychological aspect intrigues me the most rather than the sensation/feeling it would actually give, as I would find it to be very erotically submissive getting fucked by Mistress. This doesn't make me gay whatsoever, just the thought of being submissive to Mistress. boot boy Edited 17 Oct 11, 6:33 PM by boot_boy2 | ||
| 17 Oct 11, 7:12 PM The_Dark_Prince UK(WR), 4 yrs |
I haven't fucked a guy or been fucked either - but I hope to. I'm 90% straight but there are some good looking guys out there. (So I'm more heteroflexible than bi)
Unfortunately I'm noy gay enough to have gaydar - as I found out one time when I asked a straight guy for his number and almost caused a fight! Be the change you want to see in the world. - Gandhi. | ||
| 17 Oct 11, 9:28 PM goodghirl UK, 8 yrs |
Nom Nom Nom...... I realise that's really infantile but honestly ~ if it was gay sex or chips gay sex for me baby Edited 17 Oct 11, 9:30 PM by goodghirl | ||
| 17 Oct 11, 9:52 PM gensub2011 UK(SW), 5 yrs |
You are not alone. I also have this desire, it's great to hear others have this!! It's weird because i've never desired a male, only a female with a strap on. In my case i think it's some kind of deep desire for role reversal. |
