as the scene changed (70)

I've been away in vanilla land for a few years and before having a rest etc so in total maybe 4 yrs since last munches and clubs etc and it seems the whole concept of "dating" as moved as well

there seems too be a frequency now that a Dom as too have more then one sub and all these Doms with a harem are called Daddy, don't get me wrong I have nothing against age play etc but it seems the norm now and the new name for Master yet mention swinging too them and I'm the one being judged

also play as become more extreme its not good enough too be a Dom with an evil mind and a bags of well selected toys you have too now have a stockroom that would put NHS trusts too shame

again there seems too be many subs out there playing with many Doms but not in any kind of relationship with them I'm all up for experimenting but where does it end

what ever happened too crazy things like love in the scene finding your kinky other half that completes you and makes you happy or are we just becoming hand me downs and left overs

I would be happy with one person Kismet but as much as I hate too admit it I feel a certain amount of "peer pressure" and is this new wave what is expected of me have I got to adapt myself in essence change myself to be more accectable

End of story.

Edited 7 Oct 11, 9:53 PM by ShinyKitty

If you adapt yourself to be more acceptable, I suggest you change the setting to sub!

I have a Daddy, we're certainly not part of a harem, but we do swing.

I've not actually been part of the scene all that long, so I can't talk about the time you seem to be, but nevertheless, I've seen a fair few trends that pick up and wane.

XxX

maybe I'm coming over wrong I have always been flexible with a sub I have had 4 LTRs in the last 11yrs of being into fet and obviously everyone of those lovely ladies have been different and liked different things so I flexed with them bringing out the best in both of us

but todays subbie seems a totally different charactor in my day knife play was using a knife over then skin sometimes scratching etc but never drawing blood, but now it feels like you have too draw blood enough too give a transfusion with cat or dag which ever the lady wants too be again something else thats moved on animal play 4 yrs ago except horse play it wasn't common but every other sub wants you too build them a kennel or catbed yes I like stroking a lady cuddled up with her head on my lap but I have a chocolate lab I don't want to be chasing round the park cleaning up a subbies shit cos it makes her feel more like a pet I'm more likely too build them a gyro hamster wheel and let them power the house lol

breath control use to be kissing a subbie holding her nose while she orgasms or very carefully strangling her at that point but now its a case of "do you know CPR" if I don't pass out your not hard enough

so I guess I am saying is this what is expected of a Dom in the new era

thank you jules TREND thats the word that as alluded Me all day