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Insistor
Posted by Insistor on Fri 7 Oct 11, 12:33 AM to Insistor's blog.

I got so bored with the earlier thread that I missed this -

'A few years ago I took a girl to a fetish club, tied her up, and told her that someone would come in and use her, and if she wanted to make me happy, she'd let him do whatever he wanted. Then I blindfolded her and put earplugs in her ears.

After she'd been used and fucked - but before untying her - I removed the ear plugs and told her that I thought she was a dirty bitch and I wasn't sure that I wanted her to be my sub any more. She started crying.

At which point I untied her, helped dry her tears and took her home. We did have a conversation in the car though - one in which I admitted that the ' other guy ' had actually been me.

As for the rest of it ? Largely discussed beforehand, so I knew it was well within the scope of what she wanted to do. I talked to her about it afterwards, and she said it was one of the most memorable scenes she'd done.'

Had he never fucked her before? Couldn't she tell it was him by touch or feel? Not a great blindman's buff player obviously. Or is it just a fairly unlikely story - a not so quick thinking attempt to scramble out of a bad hole he'd dug?

Still have you noticed how he's getting nicer and nicer? Not that I'm complaining about that. Why, we could end up as real buddies - well, no, perhaps not. ?

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7 Oct 11, 12:39 AM
mini_velvet
UK(EH), 6 yrs
UncleKev wrote:

Say NO to violence against women.

No to non-consensual violence against women surely.

7 Oct 11, 12:44 AM
mini_velvet
UK(EH), 6 yrs
UncleKev wrote:
Absolutely, and NO to anything purporting to be "fiction" which in fact is condoning real life violence against our sisters, mothers, aunts, neices, girlfriends, wives, daughters, friends, colleagues....

what if the women are consenting?

7 Oct 11, 12:49 AM
mini_velvet
UK(EH), 6 yrs
I give up
7 Oct 11, 12:54 AM
mini_velvet
UK(EH), 6 yrs
UncleKev wrote:
The women, and men, fighting abuse will not be giving up.

edited to correct spelling.

thank fuck you're here to save me. Good night.

7 Oct 11, 3:02 AM
lush_london
UK(WC), 6 yrs
Insistor you know you're posting was a direct response to your repeated calls for what someone meant by a comment they made. You have now taken a story and posted it with no context. Cheap shot, and it does you no favours.

You and your pal are clearly not subscribed to the idea that YKIOK, and are unable to separate what is fiction from reality. Maybe you would both be better off making use of other sites rather than this unpleasant hounding of someone?

7 Oct 11, 7:01 AM
angelicvixen_MH
UK(PO), 7 yrs

lush_london wrote:
Insistor you know you're posting was a direct response to your repeated calls for what someone meant by a comment they made. You have now taken a story and posted it with no context. Cheap shot, and it does you no favours.

You and your pal are clearly not subscribed to the idea that YKIOK, and are unable to separate what is fiction from reality. Maybe you would both be better off making use of other sites rather than this unpleasant hounding of someone?

Here here.

Wise words...............

I for one have had enough of this witch hunt

I am what I am and what I am needs no excuses

7 Oct 11, 7:13 AM
caprycorn
8 yrs
lush_london wrote:
Insistor you know you're posting was a direct response to your repeated calls for what someone meant by a comment they made. You have now taken a story and posted it with no context. Cheap shot, and it does you no favours.

You and your pal are clearly not subscribed to the idea that YKIOK, and are unable to separate what is fiction from reality. Maybe you would both be better off making use of other sites rather than this unpleasant hounding of someone?

This, except I'd take the question mark off the end of the last para.

Ash is a friend of mine, always will be. I put that disclaimer in just so the OP and his apparently feminist friend don't say "ahhh but you're a friend of his" and think that I've cunningly tried to disguise it by not saying "I'm a friend of his". So there it is. He's my friend. However I don't wank over his fiction as it doesn't float my boat. What does it for me, fantasy wise, is much more extreme than what Ash writes.

And there's the key. It's fantasy. It's fiction.

Insistor, you seem to think that you have a drum to bang and maybe you think that you need to alert the women of this site to the danger that is Ash. What you're actually doing is showcasing him and making yourself look remarkably petty by going on and on and on. Claims of "bored now!" when you are disagreed with don't work either, by the way.

Thing is, we know Ash's writings are fantasy. However the allure of people who have extreme fantasies that mesh with yours and who share them with you can be that they have capacity to go WAY beyond your comfort zone and you have to trust that they won't. It's a thrill and one I've sought before as submissive and one I constantly play with as a Dominant. Judging from the responses Ash gets, it's one that is shared by more than just me and mine.

My imaginary friend thinks that you have a problem

7 Oct 11, 7:30 AM
carenza_lionheart
UK(NN), 24 mths

All the women here who find those fantasies hot need saving from themselves by Insistor and UncleKev. How lucky we are to be shown that our BDSM fantasies and activities are actually abuse of our poor, silly little selves. We cannot possibly decide for ourselves what we like or want, and there is no such thing as consensual non-consent.

The one who claims to be innocent

7 Oct 11, 8:41 AM
kinky_kitty
UK(LE), 5 yrs
UncleKev wrote:
i always know when i've won a debate... it's when the opposition stoop to the level of flippant and abusive language.

Really didn't want to make this guys blog count any higher but OhMyDays. Seriously?!

So it's ok for Insistor to call Ash names and be generally petty and 'flippant and abusive', to quote your words? This whole thing has been flippant and abusive from the start.

I'm just wondering how long it'll be, after this has died down, that you get bored and start another stupid argument flimsily dressed up as a 'debate'.

Open up your eyes. You keep on crying baby, I'll bleed you dry.

7 Oct 11, 8:51 AM
Rigour
UK, 21 mths

Well you're right about one thing there is more, lots more all over this site, written by all sorts of different people and a good proportion as or more extreme than Ash writes but you choose to ignore all that. Strange if it's the content you object to you'd expect more blogs criticising others writing but no just your what ?, third or forth attack on the same person in a couple of days, anyone would think it's personal.

More hedonism NOW

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