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Depression (16)

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6 Oct 11, 9:10 PM
SirOpenSource
UK(E), 6 yrs


NilSatisNisiOptimum wrote:
Depression

How do you help someone who lives miles away,that you only know fron online chatting and they say they are determined to end things for once and all.How do you help any ideas?

Regards Andy

Just stay with them and be empathic to their needs. Sometimes suicidal ideation is a cry for help but If they are listened to without judgement and you are patient with them you will have done all you can.

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6 Oct 11, 9:10 PM
SirOpenSource
UK(E), 6 yrs


NilSatisNisiOptimum wrote:
Depression

How do you help someone who lives miles away,that you only know fron online chatting and they say they are determined to end things for once and all.How do you help any ideas?

Regards Andy

Just stay with them and be empathic to their needs. Sometimes suicidal ideation is a cry for help but If they are listened to without judgement and you are patient with them you will have done all you can.

SOS

The Titter group - for when you don't feel too serious.
I believe in equality for everyone, except reporters and photographers. - Mahatma Gandhi
www.Londonmunch.co.uk
Londonmunch@hotmail.com - Enquiries

6 Oct 11, 11:38 PM
Peccavi
4 yrs
NilSatisNisiOptimum wrote:
Depression

How do you help someone who lives miles away,that you only know fron online chatting and they say they are determined to end things for once and all.How do you help any ideas?

Regards Andy

999

6 Oct 11, 11:43 PM
sub55y
UK(HA), 15 mths
If you can get them to ring the samaritans they can be of great benefit,or perhaps if you can get a phone number somehow then pass that to the ambulance/police they will do the rest.
7 Oct 11, 12:12 AM
mini_velvet
UK(EH), 6 yrs
Peccavi wrote:
NilSatisNisiOptimum wrote:
Depression

How do you help someone who lives miles away,that you only know fron online chatting and they say they are determined to end things for once and all.How do you help any ideas?

Regards Andy

999

the person is talking long term, I don't think 999 is the answer.

7 Oct 11, 1:41 AM
Peccavi
4 yrs
Granted, the O/P went on to give more information that the friend is 'getting their affairs in order'. That is what some people do before suicide. Not 999 perhaps but if there is no way of knowing who/where they are, the police are the ones to hand the information to so that they can make the judgement call re tracing them and intervention.
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