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| Sun 25 Sep 11, 8:30 AM Suitable_Switch UK(L), 4 yrs |
Do other switches also feel its natural people younger should sub to them while they should sub to those older? Is this just my thinking? Does this extend beyond switches? I'm sure this has been discussed before though I'm interested to know if others agree. I for one couldn't imgaine giving my submission to a young bimbo. Whats your thoughts? | |
| 25 Sep 11, 8:52 AM Visualize UK(CV), 5 yrs |
It doesnt matter to me anymore what age they are. I used to have a rule not to get involved with under thirties as the life experience gulf was too great but I even dropped that. I feel dominant with some people and submissive with others and it does not seem to be linked to their cronological age. That said, emotional intelligence is vital and maybe that develops with age and experience that you wont find so much in young 'uns? | |
| 25 Sep 11, 8:55 AM ColdHarbour UK(SW), 4 yrs |
I don't see that age enters into it personally. I have owned slaves and had servants who were/are both older and younger than me (by decades in some cases). And, when I was younger and 'switched' in order to learn my trade and find out how it felt to be on the receiving end, I submitted to both older and younger Dommes. I think it rather depends on the individuals concerned and on how their heads are wired. You cannot run away from what is inside you — African proverb | |
| 25 Sep 11, 8:59 AM pleasureswitch UK(E), 6 yrs |
Honestly no, or it dosen't have to be like this. It is IMO all about attitude, Dominant Personalities and Willingness to submit not about age, which in this case is just a number. You can be a Prat Dom or a Un Sub at any age, Young or old. It's personality, an here I decend into cliche but it is the Chemestry between peps, that Dynamic, which can be found in my experience in people of any age. I would really like to think that I would be able to view a person fully in the round, an IF they are a Beautiful cute subbie who just happen to be 52 ( which is a bit older than me) then they are a Beautiful subbie, surley ? How about a Powerful 28 year old pullin my chain, Yes Please ! Wouldn't it be good if love were truly blind ? "Yeah I like Kinky stuff,dirty dark pervy stuff,weird sex....
An' Yerself ?" | |
| 25 Sep 11, 9:01 AM unedeuxtrois UK(RM), 12 mths |
I love a youngen me!! Not sure if I'd want some pretty young thing slapping me about a bit. I'd just want to cuddle them and brush their emo fringes out of their eyes and pulling their trousers up so their marvel pants aren't on show. | |
| 25 Sep 11, 9:21 AM fellatrix UK, 2 yrs |
So are all young people bimbos? At what age does a bimbo cease to be? I can't imagine submitting to someone who wasn't compatible with me. Age isn't of great importance in that equation. My master is 8 years younger than me, and while that might have been more of an issue when I were a mere strippling of 29 it seems totally irrelevant now. | |
| 25 Sep 11, 2:22 PM apriljones UK(SE), 2 yrs |
just out of interest, how do you feel about old bimbos? | |
| 25 Sep 11, 2:34 PM bohemian_vendetta UK(EC), 10 mths |
Hi -yes I agree with your way of thinking, (to an extent) and have even made reference to it on my profile. I have also spoken to others (female) who have referenced it as being a bit of a deal breaker, to play with a much younger Dominant. In my own case (although a switch) I am very inexperienced at being submissive and perhaps this leads to my prejudices concerning younger people? This might have more to do with my insecurities regarding that ,than anything else. As far as Topping goes, I am happy to top many different ages and if I were attracted to them ,would Top an older person with no issues whatsoever. Being now in my mid 40's and having had a lifelong kink for spanking, if I were a lot younger I might struggle to find suitable partners because of this way of thinking, thinking about it this seems a bit blinkered considering how difficult it can be to find fellow kinksters in the first place. Finding younger people to spank doesn't seem to have got harder as I get older,it's very much to the opposite, perhaps that is directly related to my specific kink and a more overtly sexual one might tell a different story?
As far as bimbo's go -I wouldn't want to spend time with one whatever her age B_V
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| 25 Sep 11, 2:51 PM Jons_Amaranth UK(WS), 11 yrs |
I am not a switch, but my Dom is younger than me
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| 25 Sep 11, 6:21 PM OllieVW 3 yrs |
Can you explain why? Do you feel younger people are less worthy of your submission. They possess less knowledge or ability. If you were left with the choice of submitting to someone younger than yourself or nothing would you choose not to submit at all. Just because someone is older doesn't mean they guarantee to provide any more or less, it just means their older. Whats your take on colour or religious beliefs?
"No dream is to big, the sky is the limit" N.B.I.G | |
| 25 Sep 11, 7:11 PM Grasshopper UK(SE), 2 yrs |
OBJECTION. I cut off my emo fringe years ago, although I make no excuse for the Marvel pants. Basically as I am seeink it, Ray, the problem is that you are not callink your girlfriend for five months. You see, the hot babies like to feel wanted. If you are not callink them on the phone for a while, it is like a way of saying "you are worst song, played on ugliest guitar" |