Are Masters Born That Way? (33)

Also why are there so few Masters compared to Dommes?

I think you can nurture dominant (or submissive) instincts/urges and that you can teach techniques/build skill sets/etc, but that that the basic kernel has to be there to begin with.

Primula is NOT cheese. Fuck, it's not even FOOD.

OH how the mighty need a push up from the bottom !

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I know I had urges like that before I had sexual urges if that makes sense? I had urges to be caused pain and to be humilated by someone way before I had urges to want to be sexual with anyone, maybe doms at the same? Just my thoughts on the subject.

So yes I think the core nature to be dom or sub is there but everything else is learnt until there comes a stage that you can be called slave or master

Sir's fallen angel, i live to serve him

What are you relying on to say there are "so few" Masters compared to Dommes?

Also, seems to me you are mixing your flavours - I would compare Masters with Mistresses (in M/s relationships) and Doms with Dommes (in D/s relationships)

I would actually be surprised if there were "so few" Masters/Doms compared to Mistresses/Dommes because I suspect there are far more male Dom/female sub couples who aren't active on the scene than female Domme/male or female sub couples

Where's @Bohnanza when you need him?

There's a somebody I'm longing to see, I hope that he turns out to be, someone to watch over me
I'm a little lamb who's lost in the wood, I know I could always be good, to one who'll watch over me (Ella Fitzgerald)

Make of that what you will!

I would think also that some don't want the full time responsibility but just enjoy the play factor of Dominance.

Fitz.

Escaped from the parallel universe

he's working on someone else's thread no doubt

bless his cotton socks

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I guess I am saying there is no formula to learning, and it could come easily to some people, less so for me.

If you wanna learn to be a master then just give it a try (once you are aware of your responsibilities as master, and you know yourself well!) If it doesn't work out no problem. Lots of people like to switch just for a moment now and then. Just take it as it comes. No forcing it etc...

yeah well you haveing subbed before you have a good idea of what to do when Doming,, creating a presance in a room as you enter is an easy step,, basicly you walk in as though you own the place,, dont do it for the audiance your doing it for you,, scan the room with a dirty smile as though all on show are your's,, look just above peoples eye line

i,m not saying put yourself on a pedistal but creating a presance,, darn you know how to Top pushing a bit of Dom won't be a prob

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Basically as I am seeink it, Ray, the problem is that you are not callink your girlfriend for five months. You see, the hot babies like to feel wanted. If you are not callink them on the phone for a while, it is like a way of saying "you are worst song, played on ugliest guitar"