This post is on the Pro-Mistresses etc web board (moved from SM/Bondage/Fetish).
| Sat 24 Sep 11, 1:32 PM lock_forward UK, 2 yrs |
More and more online pro-dommes are "offering" financial domination, either as one of their many services or concentrating wholly on this speciality. I wondered if anyone has had any positive experiences with this particular fetish? The more I look at it, the more I think it can only end in tears. Is there something in this that I am missing? Thanks | |
| 24 Sep 11, 1:33 PM lush_london UK(WC), 6 yrs  |
It might not be your thing, I know it would not be my thing but as always on IC, YKIOK. | |
| 24 Sep 11, 1:54 PM interestediin UK(KT), 8 mths  |
I really dont see the point in it.. Collarme is terrible for it nearly every woman on there is demanding money and gifts before they would even talk to you... just seems a con to me | |
| 24 Sep 11, 2:09 PM FriendlyMentor UK(SW), 23 mths |
It depends really. Good F/D is a time intensive art form and is nothing to do with the 10 zillion "give me your money now wallet-pig" *dommes*. It can represent the ultimate loss of control and dependence, can be linked with forfeits, training challenges, and if take to extremes (with a good partner or p/d) it can even leave you richer at the end. The problem is that its all to easy for people to be exploited by f/d and there is the unsavoury (to me) "give me cash now" brigade as well. FM | |
| 24 Sep 11, 7:39 PM Elle_in_France  UK, 2 yrs |
In my experience, nearly all subs claiming to be financial slaves are simply using that as a ruse to try to wheedle free chat with a Mistress, on the promise of riches to come. I've met only two real financial slaves, and they were both having a tough time of trying to free themselves from Mistresses who were abusing their power over them. It just seems that the whole situation is so wide open to abuse either way, if you are a financial slave, don't mention it until you know who you are talking to. | |
| 24 Sep 11, 7:55 PM Juicyfruity88 UK(SO), 9 mths |
I'm sure there are many ways for a Pro-Dominatrix to bring a man to his knees...but i don't think this should be one. | |
| 24 Sep 11, 8:04 PM CookieMonster UK, 6 yrs |
And how do you know for sure the Domme isn't a hairy fat trucker called Dave? |
