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Is it all in the mind?... (14)

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26 Sep 11, 7:47 PM
subbie_jc
11 mths

thankyou everyone for your replies... x

26 Sep 11, 8:02 PM
franci
UK(TW), 24 mths

I have to use my mind to have one.

The upsdie is I can do it fully clothed with no hands.

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26 Sep 11, 8:10 PM
Ama_Sidero
UK(GU), 7 yrs

misunderstoodslave wrote:
I still think practising helps. Little Imp advised doing so till you could knock one out in less than 4 mins. I give it a go pretty much daily, but I must say less than 4 mins is a target I've only got to a couple of times. I'm regularly under 8 mins though, and I used to be at least 15. I appreciate it's not a timed race, but I think the more you do the easier with it you are.

Still nowhere nearer coming in the presence of another, but one must keep trying. What it does mean is that I wander around in a slightly heightened state of sexual arousal most of the time. Which can be fun.

You could, too, try with a magic wand. There is almost no way that you could NOT with one of those (unless it is just too strong to be bearable). The upside is that if you get used to knocking them out quickly with that, the stress of trying is no longer there.

I think it is different for everyone. Some people can do it with their fingers, some can't....etc.

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26 Sep 11, 8:13 PM
mesmerone
UK(E), 5 yrs

Yeah, I think lots of people have to be in the right place psychologically to cum. I know I do.